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I am a Master who is white, 58, fit and fabulous. I have a variety of slaves ranged from 19 to 50. I am strict but fair and do not discriminate against any particular race. Having said that my favorite flavour is black or asian. If there is any copy right material on this site let me know and it will be removed.

Saturday 29 April 2017

It is not always a fairy tale ending with a no number slave. From the blog you may get a misguided view that I live a life full of great slave experiences. However it is not necessarily so as I recently discovered. I had been speaking to a potential slave for a couple of weeks on a kink website and he seemed like the real deal. He had not had a lot of slave experience but he had a fair bit of gay experience. His attitude was subservient and respectful and so I had big hopes that he might be a keeper. He was a very hot 40 something and from the photos he seemed to live in a nice apartment in a suburb just to the north of the CBD.
I was in town for dinner and decided it was a good opportunity to check him out in detail and so I made arrangements to meet him at his place. This was easier as I wasn't sure what time dinner would finish. I normally don't meet slaves at their places as I feel they have a certain psychological advantage. This can also be a disadvantage to them if you humiliate them really badly in their own house. I also find that in their own houses there is also a reticence to do some things in case the neighbours see or hear some thing. As I like to use common household items in my training it is generally easier in my familiar environment to locate things. It has some good and bad points and so I suppose Masters need to operate where it suites them personally. I advised this slave that I would text him half an hour out so he could be ready. He was told to meet me in a pose of respect and to be fully clothed. He originally wanted to meet me at the door naked but I like making a slave strip at my order as it puts them under more pressure. I arrived and pushed in and sat down in a comfortable chair. I told him to strip one item at a time. I got him to turn around each time so I could see the skin on both sides. Eventually he was naked and so I stood up and went and thoroughly examined him. I ran my hands all over him, in his mouth around his gums, down his legs and under his feet. I pulled the foreskin back and opened the eye on his cock so I could see everything. He was then told to bend over and place his hands on the couch. I opened his arse cheeks and had a long look at his hole. I then had him show me around the apartment so I could get an idea of what the play ground contained. He was then shown the three poses and made to practise them at ever increasing speed until I was sure he knew them. All was going well and so it was time for a chat. I got him to put a pillow on the polished floors and kneel on it while we talked. First off was him retelling me about his first gay experience. I then asked why he still had pubes. He advised that he had shaved his balls and arse but felt that a man needed pubes. Well I didn't disagree with the sentiment however he is a slave not a man which I pointed out to him. He was firm there would be no shaved pubes. This sent off alarm bells but as I had travelled to get there I didn't want to leave so soon. We chatted a bit more about his experience and I advised him that I would be taking photos of the session. It was then I realised that I had left the camera in the car. Not to worry I decided to make it into a positive and ordered him to put on a set of shorts (no underwear) and a set of thongs. My plan was to take him down to the car to get the camera and while there have a play with his dick on the street. It was dark and there was no one around. I wouldn't have done it if there was anyone around. The slave then asked if he could put on a T-shirt. I said no as I wanted him to be under a bit of pressure. It wasn't real cold out side but it wasn't real hot either. Well then I got a flat no from the slave. His argument was that he had to live in the area and would find it embarrassing. Really I said. What do you wear on the beach. He agreed he didn't wear shirts on the beach but apparently this wasn't the beach. I looked at him in disbelief for a second or two until he seemed to squirm under my gaze. I considered the situation and felt that the night was not going to go well. In less than 5 minutes I had got two "NO's". Masters do not like the word no as it shows less than full commitment by the slave. I felt that this slave was only a tyre kicker and not even slightly aware of what would be required of a real slave. I told him I wasn't going to waste my time on him and that he wasn't to contact me until he was ready to fully commit. Hence this slave has no number as we never got far enough to number him.

Monday 24 April 2017

The Prisoner. Every slave has his own kink and as a Master I try and make sure that I cater to these kinks as best I can. I have been speaking to slave 17 for just over a week on a kink website. He was very keen and eager and so our first meet was quicker than most. This slave had a thing for hoods, gags and being held prisoner. He warned me from the start that he would try and escape if it was possible.
He wanted to be totally blinded by the hood so he couldn't see what was happening. This I found interesting as it would be challenging for me to keep control. He was a well proportioned 40 something who was quite muscly and there fore could be dangerous to handle. I decided the best place for us to meet was at a kink sex on site venue. He had never been to this venue. I got him to meet me outside the building and told him to not wear underwear. I wanted the underwear sticking out side his back pocket so I could recognise him and for that little bit of extra embarrassment. He was to be standing still, arms by his side and not looking around outside the building. These instructions seem simple but I have had a number of slave versions of these over the years. Ultimately a lot are embarrassed and conveniently interpret my meaning to be out side the venue entrance which is private and on the first floor. I approached the entrance at the appointed hour and found him getting ready just inside the doorway. As luck would have it he had his back to me. I ordered him in my most threatening voice to not look around and to proceed up the stairs to the club entrance. Once there I handed him a mask and told him to put it on. I paid for our entrance and led him in to the main bar, TV, lounge area just inside the door. There were around 4 or 5 people in the area. As he had never been to this venue he had no idea. I got him then to slowly take off each of his clothing items on command until he was stark naked. I advised him that he was being watched by a number of people which made him a bit uncomfortable I gauged from his body language. I then lead him by his dick up to the play room I had booked. Along the way I found a very good looking guy in his late 30's and had slave 17 present himself for inspection. The play room is up 4 flights of stairs and involves lots of left and right turns and so he was totally disorientated by the time he got to the room. Once in the room you find an assortment of items including a double bed, a sling, and lots of galvanised steel pipe sub frame which is ideal to use as tie points.
I started the session off as usual with a full body inspection and taught him the three poses I require all slaves to learn. We tried on several hoods and put a gag on him. The gag was similar to a horse bridle. He was then bound and advised that he was my prisoner and that he would be held over night and not let out unless he behaved. I then proceeded to place him in a number of different bondage positions. This was very tricky as I had to make sure I could transition between the different bondage positions without him getting free. Quite often I had to tighten one set of ropes while gradually loosening the last set of ropes to ensure there was enough restraint to prevent him escaping. One thing I did enjoy was that as he was totally blind I could surprise him quite easily to significant effect. For example a couple of times I poured cold water over him which got a startled response each time. I could give him slaps to tender parts of his body like his balls, sides and dick to similar effect. The play room has a roller door covering bars out to the walk way. I made sure the roller door was open so we had small groups of two or three viewers watching through out the session. I would quite often talk to them and get their comments so that slave 17 knew he was being watched. I had him bound at one stage and left the room. I watched him for awhile through the bars and saw he immediately went to test the ropes. He quickly realised that he was stuck and so managed to find enough slack to be able to touch his dick. Typical of a male he immediately decided it was a good chance to try and wank. I left him to it and went out to check out the club, see how many people were there and buy a drink. When I returned he had his little clit erect and he was going for the wank like a hamster on steroids. I put a stop to that and changed the bondage so that he was restrained but able to walk. His balls and erect clit were tied to his dog collar so they were stretched. I then led him out of the room by a lead on his dog collar. We then went on a grand tour of the club. Whenever possible I stopped and talked to other punters. I had them feel up slave 17 whenever they wanted and generally talked about him like he was a pet dog. If he wasn't disorientated previously then he most certainly was now. Back in the room I decided to introduce a bit of torture and so pegs were applied but he was very sensitive to them and so they were used sparsely. He was ticklish and so he was tickled until he begged me to stop. His arse was then made use of and judging by his reactions he had not had much experience with anal sex. To finish off the session I continued edging him. He had been edged from the start but now I spent the last half hour constantly bringing him to the edge of an orgasm and then backing off. Once I had determined that he had suffered enough I permitted him a very intense orgasm which had him trembling and left a stream of jism as far up as his neck. I then released him and removed his hood. This was the first time he had seen me. He was then ordered to get dressed and given permission to leave. He had to ask for directions out as he had no idea of even which way to go out the door.

Tuesday 18 April 2017

Easter from slave 20 perspective. I really enjoyed serving you recently. As I am a very private person I was nervous when I arrived but like you has said in previous massages you get very annoyed when people don't show up without any notice. I agree that this is very rude so will try to never be one of these people. When I arrived you got me to remove my clothes so you could inspect me. Then you showed me your 3 slave positions. Then you had me in position 2 whilst you learnt more about me. After this you decided to tie me up into some different positions and test me with what I could do. You wanted to stretch my balls which I did enjoy. Once I got home they did hurt for a while but that was ok as I did enjoy it at the time. You did manage to get 2kg of weight hanging and swinging from them. You also seemed to enjoy playing with my nipples. This included clipping pegs to them and my Penis. I found that more painful and very much on my limit but I was determined to not complain about it but it was not favourite of mine.
After the bondage you got me to show you some of the toys that I have, this included my rubber clothing. I enjoy the smell and feel of rubber clothing tight to my body. Then wearing my rubber hood you tied me up some more to test me. After this you decided to test my strength by riding me like a horse. It was a strain as there was not to much space to move around and the fact you were steering me by my balls. To finish off my first visit you took me to the bathroom where for the first time you introduced me to WS. I found it very humiliating laying there just letting you piss all over me. I did enjoy it a lot as well. I could imagine being bound and left there whilst you are hosting a party or other slaves where when any guest needed to piss they would simply use your piss slave. You finished off by giving me a supervised shower. You decided to make it more difficult by blindfolding me. Even though it was a struggle I managed to meet your requirements. I look forward to serving you and possibly being tied up with other slaves some day.
Easter bunny. I always enjoy Easter and particularly await to see what the Easter Bunny brings me. Most years it delicious chocolate eggs however this year I got a bonus slave boi. He wasn't chocolate but slave 20 was delicious. He was a solid guy of 29 years of age with a nice 7 inch uncut cock that was quite fat and very perky. Primarily he had spent most of his life straight but was wondering if he could possibly be gay. Always happy to test out a slaves gayness. As he was new to this I decided to take it very slowly. We started off with me having him slowly strip to his underwear. I checked him out after each piece of clothing came off and had him turn around each time so I could see both sides. I then showed him the three poses he needs to know and practised him in adopting them quickly in quick succession until he was panting. He was comfortable now so it was time for the big reveal. I was happy to see an uncut cock (my favourite flavour) of good size which was firmly pointing up. I used him as a foot stool for awhile while we talked about his sex life, his likes and hates and his personal life. I then decided that he had nice plump balls but they were close held to his body so a nice stretching was in order.
I put a few loops of rope around his balls leaving an exposed loop. To this I attached a plastic 2 litre bottle. I then gradually filled it with water until it was full and weighing 2 kg. I kept the bottle swinging while I played with his nipples. The next item on the agenda was to tie him in a variety of positions while I edged him. Each time I touched his cock it quickly got hard. As ordered slave 20 brought along some of his favourite toys. This was mostly rubber gear. So I had him put on various items while I continued to restrain him in various poses. As slave 20 was a gay virgin I was careful about arse play. I got my smallest dildo and very slowly and carefully introduced it into his mangina and gave him a few gentle pokes so he got the feel for it. He seemed to enjoy it but it would require much more practice before he could take a decent pounding. He was placed in a few poses where I could use him as furniture and had a couple of pleasant sits and lies. While in a cheap Asian store recently I found some small wooden pegs which are about a quarter the size of normal pegs. Never having used them before I was keen to try them out and so I placed a few on slave 20 nipples and around his cock head. These proved to be very effective and were ideal to get into tight places like around the edge of his cock head. I suspected they would be quite painful and so I only left them in place for a short time as slave 20 was a newby after all. He was a strong 6 foot slave and so I tied some ropes to his balls and used them as reigns while I rode him around. First with him on all fours and then as a piggy back. Its lots of fun using the reigns when they are attached to balls. Surprisingly the horse is very quick to respond to direction changes. I rode him into the bathroom and had him lie in the bath. New slaves are great because they have no idea what to expect next. The look on his little face when my cock was pointed at him was priceless. He was then covered from head to foot in my golden present. Judging by his little penis thermometer he enjoyed this very much as he was hard enough to cut glass. Not wanting to waste a good erection he was then ordered to wank for my entertainment. As he was covered in piss I didn't want my bathroom floor dirtied. I came in with a bucket of water and poured it all over slave 20 to wash him down. This was another OMG moment for him as his eyes widened and another look of surprise. He was expecting cold water but he had been a good boi and so warm water was his reward. Off then to the shower so he could clean himself properly however I put one of his rubber masks on which didn't have eye holes. This made the task a bit harder than usual. It was also the first time that slave 20 had had a supervised shower. Very entertaining and a great finish to the Easter holiday.

Sunday 16 April 2017

Master training. Well there are many paths potential Masters can take to get to the end goal. Some start off as slaves and then progress to being Masters while others become Masters and learn on the job by trial and error or by disappearing slaves. There is a third way my friends and that is to learn from other Masters. This final way can be done via many channels including reading blogs like this or by watching what goes on at specialist sex venues.
While discussing my bondage beliefs with a number of friends who are also Masters it became clear that most of them had no idea what I was on about. As previously mentioned I have done some formal bondage training in Japanese Kinbaku or Shibari. This is very pretty and takes a long time to Master. At the end you have a slave who has been tied up in very pretty knots and ropes which is a joy to behold but leaves both the Master and slave exhausted from the time consuming effort and viewers most probably asleep. Needless to say erections are also a distant memory.
Most bondage events I have attended are based on elements of this although the Masters concerned are probably unaware of the source of these skills. As a consequence I decided to host an event at my house for these Master friends so that I could show them my technique. My technique is not artistic. It is based on quickly immobilising the slave so that you can - this is the surprising bit - use them. It means you can move them around numerous positions without cutting off circulation or causing cramps. It also stimulates your creativeness.
I like to use common house hold items rather than expensive commercial toys which are hard to explain when your mother arrives for a visit (Tell me again dear why you need that monkey bar set in the lounge room). At the appointed hour the Masters arrived. I had made sure that slave 6 had arrived earlier and so they were met by him standing in the corner with his nose against the wall. Once they were all comfortable I had slave 6 turn around and strip off for the Masters. I noticed slave 6 was already hard when his underwear came off.
I then gave them a short time to inspect the slave. I always think this is important as it is totally humiliating for the slave and so sets the pecking order. The slave is mid 30s with quite a good body. He has a cut cock which is a respectable 7 inches in length. The Masters were very thorough in their inspections which had slave 6 cock pulsating. I then put the slave into about 20 different positions in order to show how I tie him up, the knots I use and a whole variety of new ways to use chairs, couches and kitchen implements. At each new position slave 6 was edged. I ensured there was plenty of crowd participation in the edging process. Poor slave 6 had pretty much emptied his balls with pre-cum by the time we got to the end.
The Masters used the opportunity to question slave 6 about his experience, his personal and sex life. This was entertaining for the Masters but embarrassing for slave 6. After over an hour and a half I rewarded slave 6 with a hand job and sent him home. He came but with out much ejaculate. The end to a perfect night.

Wednesday 12 April 2017

Four hands. Well today I filled in my day by entertaining two new slaves. One was totally new and had never done anything with a Master. The other had experience only with one Master. If the day was going to be successful I had to make sure that slave 19 didn't get overly anxious. Never having done anything of this type before and only having limited gay experience made it very likely that he would chicken out. I got him to arrive first by a couple of hours. In order to stamp my authority I immediately explained my three poses and then practised him in adopting each position until he had it correct. I got him to remove his shoes and socks and then told him to lower his pants as I wanted to see his underwear. I then told him that slaves don't wear underwear and to remove them. He was of large build and while not the longest cock, it was quite thick, moist at the end and uncut. I then got him to replace his track suit pants and shoes and took him for a walk around my area with the dog. This gave me a chance to talk to him and get him relaxed and comfortable. At a couple of quiet places in the park I wanked him just enough to get him hard. Once home I got him naked and gave him a thorough inspection from head to toes.
I then placed him in a variety of bondage situations. Each time I edged him until he was hard. I was thirsty and so showed him how I like my coffee made and had him prepare a drink. I then had him adopt position three which is him bowed over in the kneeling position. I then used him as a foot stool while I drank my coffee. Off to the bath room next where I got the clippers out and removed his pubes. slaves don't get to have pubes. Into the shower next where he had his first shower supervised totally. Once he was dry it was turn for my shower. I got slave 19 to set the temperature perfectly and fortunately it was correct. I then washed and had him dry and dress me. This slave is only 18 and so I cooked lunch while tying him in various positions. I asked him what punishment he should get for appearing with pubes. After much angst he determined that 10 paddles would be adequate. I cut it back to six as he was new to this and I didn't want to scare him off. So across my knee he went and he counted and thanked me for each swat. After lunch slave 18 arrived. I put slave 19 against the wall with a coin held in place by his nose. His arms were tied behind him and he was told not to drop the coin or he would be punished. I then carried out a full inspection of slave 18 body. Once again a fairly chunky body. Next slave 19 was told to suck slave 18 cock and report on its taste. I wanted to make sure slave 18 was clean. He was then taken to the bathroom and I got slave 19 to shave his pubes. Clearly none of them had read the memo. I got slave 18 to show us what he had been told to bring. There was a collection of underwear as he has an underwear fetish. So he was made to model them and clearly he was not a model as he walked like a duck. He had a CB6000 cock cage and so I got slave 19 to put it on slave 18. He had never seen these before and so it was a good chance to learn. We moved on then to a few double bondage positions which was challenging for me as I haven't had to do that for quite a while. Along the way I kept them edged either by myself or to each other. I then brought up the subject of slave pubes and got slave 19 to explain what the punishment was to slave 18. Punishment was then applied. In my preparatory talks with slave 18 I found that he had a nappy fetish. He wasn't into acting like a baby but just liked the feel and embarrassment of wearing nappies. Along the way I had made them both drink lots of water. Eventually slave 18 advised that he needed a piss. Too bad so sad he had to wait until I had finished other activities. I then had him put on a pair of nappies and stand in the bath. He was allowed to fill his nappy with piss while both slave 19 and myself watched. Very humiliating. I then had him kneel in the bath and I proceeded to piss over him. A quick shower for slave 18 and back to the play area. Time for a bit of fun as I had the two slaves suck me turn around to determine who was the most proficient. I awarded the skill to slave 18 but considering his experience compared to slave 19, it was very close. I then had slave 19 suck me while slave 18 sucked the other slave. This proved challenging as he had to climb in underneath. Not my problem though and they had to sort it out. I had the more experienced slave lie on the ground and had slave 19 apply a number of pegs to his body. He was then told to give them a flick and twist. I then had him remove the pegs and they swapped places. I made slave 18 apply exactly the same number of pegs in exactly the same positions or he was going to be punished. I liked to see if he was paying attention. He was then given permission to apply four more pegs on any area of his choice. slave 19 had not experienced pegs before and so it was important that he got to both apply them and have them applied to his body so he understood. To finish off the day I had a wank contest between the two slaves. I had them sit side by side in front of me and wank off. It was a very close call with only a second between them but slave 18 won. As punishment slave 19 got four extra paddles. It was a hard day but someone had to do it.

Friday 7 April 2017

Tip 2. I have found that weights for extending balls or applying pressure to nipples can be problematic. Quite often the slave will take one but find the next size up too big a jump and so never progress. I have started using up to 2 litre (4 pint) plastic containers. When full of water this is a 2 Kg or 4 pound weight. They generally have a handle which is easy to rope too.
They also allow you to gradually add water which slowly increases the weight. This allows the slave to get used to it and extend their tolerance. You place a funnel in the top so you don't spill when filling. Piss can also be used as the filler which can then be drunk by the slave afterwards. Brilliant.

Saturday 1 April 2017

Tip 1. I have been using condoms since Moses played football with Bethlehem. One of the problems with condoms is getting them out of the packet. One of the things slave 15 taught me was to remove the condoms from the packet before you start playing and before you have slippery hands from lube. Genius and buggered if I know why I never thought of it before.