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I am a Master who is white, 58, fit and fabulous. I have a variety of slaves ranged from 19 to 50. I am strict but fair and do not discriminate against any particular race. Having said that my favorite flavour is black or asian. If there is any copy right material on this site let me know and it will be removed.

Wednesday 27 December 2017

A present from a slave. So what are some of the things a slave could give their Master for Christmas. I am a big believer in receiving lots of presents throughout the year from slaves. This is a sign that their training is going well and that they appreciate what you are doing for them. It shouldn't be a usual part of a training session that a slave brings presents as this then just becomes another task and doesn't really mean anything. Far better to receive three or four presents over the year which are a complete surprise and truly come from the heart.
One obvious one which I really like is to receive random photos of the slave naked in public, with a clothed male or performing some sex act. This really shows dedication and cheers me up if I am having a bad day at work. Another thing I really like is when a slave goes off and finds me a new slave to play with; particularly if the slave is one of my favourite types. A variation on that which I received a few years ago was a slave who brought me a mutual friend to play with who I had secretly admired for a long time. Neither I or the slave believed he would be into it but one day he said a couple of things which caught the attention of my slave. He then worked on him at the risk of personal embarrassment, to provide me with a new play thing. Well above the call of duty I felt. There are obviously material things or money the slave could bring but I am not really into paid Masters or slaves for that matter. Some acceptable things would be new sex toys particularly if they will test the slave. An ideal example of this would be a slave who resists chastity and then out of the blue buys himself a cock cage.
Perhaps another would be he buys an electro kit, new whip or humbler knowing full well that it is going to be used on him and there will be some pain involved. Some times a good laugh is just as well received. I really like getting photos or videos of slaves doing something out of the normal training, for my entertainment. An example of this would be a photo of the slave dressed as a female, or as some sort of deviant Christmas elf or Santa. Maybe a naked slave with a hard-on dancing to some tune or having sex with a blow up sheep. Surprises do need to be enjoyable and infallible. I would hate to come home with my dear old mum for Christmas lunch only to find a slave naked in the hallway, on all fours with a dildo up his arse and a humbler around his balls. Presents don't have to cost money but they do require thought, so that they will be appreciated by the Master.

Tuesday 19 December 2017

A day with slave 26 part three. We arrived at the fetish club and I took slave 26 on a guided tour before heading to our private room. He advised me that he urgently needed a piss so I made him strip off before we went down to the toilets. He stood at the urinal and asked me how he could piss wearing the cage. I showed him it had a hole in the end for pissing and explained that if he was wearing it he would normally have to sit down to piss. I made sure I stood beside him as he pissed, as it is hard for some guys to start pissing with someone watching. He was ok with it and so I told him that I also needed a piss and made him pull my cock out and hold it while I pissed. He then had to shake it and put it away.
Back in the room I removed the cage and strung him up from a beam so that he was right in front of the window shutter. He was also blind folded so that he couldn't see anything. He was then edged a couple of times to just short of the point of no return. I announced that I had to go and he heard me walk out the room and lock the door leaving him exposed and within grasp of passers bye. I looked around the club but punters were few and far between. I eventually found one guy who promised to visit slave 26. By the time I got back he had already found slave 26 and felt him up. When I asked slave 26 advised that he thought it was me doing the feeling. I put him through some more bondage and then took him for a walk around the club. We found one guy who had a good long feel of his body. When we got back to the room another guy from one of the other rooms went bye and so I invited him to inspect slave 26. This guy was much more personal and as well as playing with his body, cock and balls, also made him turn around and spread his cheeks so that he could check out slave 26 man pussy. He also appeared to insert a finger.
I started to put him into some more bondage and edged him constantly both with my hand and mouth. At some point the neighbours came to watch the proceedings and so I got out my trusty box of pegs and started to place them all over his body. I like normal wooden pegs for the body but I have these nasty little wooden pegs that I use for foreskins. The neighbours seemed to enjoy this - slave 26 not so much. It was time for another walk around in the hope that there were a few more punters in the club. I made sure I took a number of pictures of the slave in the public areas of the club as evidence of the walk. We ran into one guy and I ordered slave 26 to present himself. He was getting quite good at this by now. Coming up close so they could feel him and standing there patiently while they checked him out. He would follow their instructions and thank them at the end. This guy also had him bend over and spread his cheeks for a good look and feel. He also sucked his cock until slave 26 was hard again. When on the ground floor I took the opportunity to hood slave 26 so that he was blind. I then tied him to the St Andrews cross and left him there for awhile while I went off to get a drink. I am not sure if he was touched up by anyone as I didn't get around to asking but I was only gone a short while and so I suspect he just had his imagination. After this it was back to the room. The neighbours room door was open and so we popped our heads in to say gidday. I invited the guys to check out slave 26 and ordered him to present to them. He walked forward confidently and adopted pose one. The neighbours hands went all over him. They asked me questions about him and I discussed his pros and cons like he was a prise dog. Once again he was asked to turn around and spread his cheeks while multiple fingers were inserted. He took it all in his stride like a real trooper. Back in the room I put him into light bondage for some more edging and mutual sucking. Alas time got the better of us and we had to leave.

Monday 18 December 2017

A day with slave 26 part two. The spreader bar is one of the most useful and fun sex toys which anyone can own. It is so versatile and easy to use and a winner if you are no good at tying people up.
So I put slave 26 through a number of positions using the spreader bar. I then had him get us glasses of water. Initially I had him in position two which is a kneeling up right position and tried to put his glass on his head but I found he had a round head and it wasn't flat enough for me to use his head as a table. I then had him adopt position three which is a kneeling position and head down on the ground. It is a useful position and I used him for awhile as a foot stool. His glass was then placed on his back as I used him as a table. He was then ordered to remove the glass with out moving and without spilling any water. Unfortunately he spilt some water and so he had to be punished. It started with him over my knee applying a paddle to his arse a dozen times. I then gave his sides, thighs and feet a few hits. To finish off I spread his arse cheeks and gave each side of his crack a couple of wacks for good measure. This was only part one. He was then ordered to stand and I jumped on his back so he could piggy back me into the bathroom. He was ordered to kneel and I showed him how to really spill water by pissing all over him. Nothing worse than a dirty slave so I told him how disgusting he was and made him shower it all off. This was slave 26 first supervised shower.
Once he was clean I joined him so he could wash me. He was then told to dry himself and warned that if I found any drops on him at the end that he would be punished. Once dry I inspected him and was disappointed to find that he was the first slave to pass this test. Next he had to dry me and then dress me. I like putting a slave to use as a personal man servant. It was now time to move to the local fetish club as it had opened. The boi was told to dress and I left the cock cage on him. Before the fetish club we needed to get something to eat and buy a few things. Up at the local shopping centre in the car park I looked at him hard until he was uncomfortable and advised him that he was not adequately dressed. I handed him his slave collar and made him put it on out in full view. Later he advised that at this point his little sex thermometer wanted to tent his shorts except it was contained in the cage. Into the shop I lead him and we both noticed the smirk on the face of this hot guy who was coming out of the bakery. After the bakery it was the service station to get some petrol. I made him fill the car and then we both went into the booth to pay. His face was very red as the attendant inspected his collar while doing the transaction. Once paid he had to give me my loyalty card and change back which emphasised his subservience. Once out side he had to open the door for me and then take some rubbish out of the cabin and place it in the bin. I was watching with interest as the station attendant checked out the situation through the window. This wasn't lost on slave 26 whose little sex thermometer was poking at his cage.
A day with slave 26. I have been in contact with a slave for a long time who lives interstate. We have managed to miss each other on a number of trips due to the stars not aligning. Today the stars aligned and we agreed to meet in the city at 0930 am. I picked him up and brought him to my place. Its a good half hour drive so we had plenty of time to talk. I questioned him on his likes, hates, boundaries and prior experience. From that I was able to tell him about some of what I planned. I then told him about my requirements. One of which was that slaves are not to wear underwear when we go out as I like quick access to their equipment, I like their cocks to be easily identified if they get a bit hard and I like the way it tends to make them hard if they are not used to it. He was wearing shorts so I told slave 26 that I also like there to be a chance that his cock will be seen when he is sitting down in public. The look on his face was priceless when I told him to get his underwear off in the car. We were going through peak period town with lots of pedestrians standing around the car at intersections. He was already hard when he nervously got them off. I prolonged his trauma by making him stay naked while I fiddled around taking a photo.
He was then permitted to put his shorts back on for the rest of the trip. Once we got to my place I put him straight under stress by ordering him out of the house when we entered. He was reminded that I always like slaves to be naked at home and I made him strip on my front porch. My front porch is not totally private as it can be seen from the street but it does have some plant cover so its not wide open. I had a second surprise once we got inside. I hadn't told him about my 27 year old border. I made him present himself for inspection by the border. The border gave him a long look over, tweaked his nipples and gave his cock and balls a good handling. Unfortunately the border had to go out but his unexpected presence had given slave 26 his third shock. I then inspected slave 26 in detail. He is 28 years old and in good shape. Not overly muscled but trim and firm. He has a hairy chest, approximately 6 foot 3 inches in height with a 6 inch uncut cock. His balls sit close to his body and he has a really nice smile. He was then instructed in the three poses I have slaves learn and then practised in adopting them quickly.
I then got him working as a domestic slave. I gave him a number of tasks which required him to go out into my back yard. My back yard is quite private but a naked person can be seen if a neighbour looks over the fence or if people walk along the embankment at the back. First I had him empty the vacuum dust into the compost bin before he vacuumed my floor. I had him re-empty it once he was finished. Then there was the pot plants to water. Finally I had him make us a cup of tea. While I was drinking my tea I had him stand before me while I put on his CB6000 chastity cage. We had a bit of trouble wrangling his balls into it but we got there in the end. I had him lie on his back and then showed him how he can be edged while in his cock cage with the clever use of a Q-tip and some moisturiser. I love how an excited cock completely fills the cage and tries to push through the hole in the end of the cage. During our drive out he told me how he didn't want to cum during the session. Well that just told me that he needed lots of edging. Next I wanted to put him through some bondage. I got out the spreader bar and put him through a number of different bondage situations.

Sunday 10 December 2017

Humiliation. Most Master and slave profiles have some mention of humiliation and so you would think it would have some universal definition. As with most sexual things it appears it means almost something different to each practitioner.
I think that just dressing some one up as a girl for example might be considered by some slaves to be less than entertaining but I don't think it really qualifies as humiliating. I think for some thing to be truly humiliating it needs to have a number of elements. First off it needs to push the slaves boundaries and needs to be something they wouldn't normally do. So being dressed as a woman might be a stretch for a blokey bloke but a quick visit to any football club night generally produces half a dozen guys dressed in drag. I had a slave I dressed as a girl once and he just found it to be a turn off. He was a very blokey bloke sort of guy but to him he was a guy and had no wish or interest in being a girl. So secondly I think the slave needs to be in a unique situation. I think if there are two or more slaves engaged in some humiliation it spreads the ordeal to less effect. It is a lot harder to humiliate someone who is part of a group. I did get some success once from having a slave fuck another slave. The slave was fucked by a slave of lower standing and he found it both humiliating and a punishment. I am not sure the top slave felt that and it created status problems later. Thirdly I think you need an appropriate audience to create a really humiliating effect. I have pissed on slaves and they have found it unpleasant but I don't think any of them felt it was humiliating.
Fouthly the slave needs to have no control over the situation. I have had a slave walk naked down the street but as he had some shorts in his hand he had an 'out' if some one appeared around the corner. Normally when I get a slave to do some humiliating thing I leave a little bit of latitude so that if they are smart they can reduce the risks. For example I gave a slave the task of getting a photograph of his cock in a local park. He panicked and failed to produce the photo because all he could think of was standing naked in the middle of a crowded park. To meet the challenge all he had to do was wait until the coast was clear on one side, have his cock hang out of his pants and take a selfie with one of the parks features in the back ground. All it would have taken from start to finish was three seconds if he had been smart and with almost no risk. Another slave who was successful was given the task to have a picture taken of him naked with a clothed stranger. He told the stranger it was a football club dare and had no problems getting the required proof. It is a bit different if the task is part of a punishment and then I am generally a lot tougher with the rules so that there is less room to move. While having a slave naked in a public place can be humiliating I think some of the best effects can be got from making the slave do odd things in public while clothed. I had a slave do random exercises like star jumps and push ups in the street while on a shopping trip. Another was make a slave purchase some female attire and try it on in the shop. Another nearly died when I led him with a leash onto a bus. All good fun, totally legal but deeply humiliating.

Monday 4 December 2017

Christmas. Well its nearly that time again when the world goes mad. Its around this time that animal welfare agencies start reminding everyone that puppies are not just for Christmas. Well it is also my time where I remind Masters that slaves are not just for the other eleven months. Along with having a slave comes responsibilities and so it is important that Masters realise that your slave should be part of your Christmas festivities.
So what do you do with a slave over the Christmas holidays? Here are some suggestions. One - parties. Most Masters are gregarious people who like parties. Why not hold a party for your dearest and dirtiest minded friends. Have the slave help you prepare for it and then act as a waiter when the crowd arrives. I always think a nude waiter adds a touch of class but even clothed it saves you lots of work. Two - presents. There is always a Master who you have no idea what to give as a present. Why not deck your slave in his best leather gear and then tie a nice big ribbon around his cock and give him as a present to this difficult Master for a day. The size of the ribbon can be reduced or increased according to the slaves cock size. Ribbons are cheap but as a present it will be priceless. Three - Christmas tree. Every house needs a Christmas tree. Why not decorate your naked slave with tinsel and then hang various baubles off them using pegs or clips. This is a very practical use for a slave and gives them time to consider their performance over the year. A star on the top might be a little impractical but what about a nice stainless steel butt plug. A good coat of paint could be used to spruce up an old slave and make them look like a million dollars. Some nice large painted weights could be suspended from their balls for that extra Christmassy look. Don't forget to give them a good sprinkling of sparkles. Four - rein deer. Place a nice large tail butt plug into your slave and add a hood with horns and you can have your own rein deer for a decoration. Five - Christmas carols. Nothing like a cheery Christmas carol sung to you by your slave. For that added touch why not put some nasty nipple clamps on him or a few pegs and advise that they stay on until he has given you an acceptable rendition of your favourite Christmas carol. Six - wrapping. Why not wrap up your slave in ropes or rubber suites and then put them under your tree to open with all your other presents. You could also put them head first in a sleeping bag like some giant present in a stocking and leave them near the mantle piece. Seven - feasting (not fisting). Christmas always brings way to much food and so you don't want your slaves to end up looking like beach balls by January. Why not start a rigorous forced exercise program with them which begins before Christmas and goes over the whole holiday period. That way they will look wonderful by the new year. Eight - Santa comes but once a year. Why not put your slave into chastity for the holiday period and then give him a big treat by allowing him to cum on Christmas day. His cum could be the icing to his Christmas cake or the custard on his plum pudding. When every one else is pulling their bon bons to get their paper hats, why not have your slave pull his pud for your guests entertainment. He could wear his cum as a hat. Nine - Christmas cards. Why not use a photo of your slave for your Christmas cards. Him in his rein deer out fit pulling you in a sleigh or dressed as your Christmas tree. Show him you have sense of humour and have him paint original cards with his dick for you to send out. Ten - egg nog. Have him make you egg nog drinks for Christmas eve which are flavoured by cum. Have him shoot a load into a cup each time you want a fill up. I hope these few ideas will inspire you to make it into a jolly Christmas.