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I am a Master who is white, 58, fit and fabulous. I have a variety of slaves ranged from 19 to 50. I am strict but fair and do not discriminate against any particular race. Having said that my favorite flavour is black or asian. If there is any copy right material on this site let me know and it will be removed.

Thursday 30 March 2017

The first visit of slave 15. Yesterday I had a visit from a slave who lives four hours away in country Victoria. We had conversed a lot over a few weeks but had been unable to meet because of the distance mostly. By chance he had to come up to the big smoke and had an hour or two to spare and so he was able to visit. He had been driving all over Melbourne during the day doing a multitude of tasks and so when he arrived I offered him a coffee so he could catch his breath and it gave us a chance to talk. He is a tradie in his early forties, slim, trim and muscular. We had a discussion about his life and some of his BDSM experiences. Not all were good I might add. Once he was refreshed I took him into the lounge room and had him undress. I gave him a thorough going over and found a nice thick cut cock of around 7 inches. It immediately started to get hard. My nipple tweeks and ball rolling revealed a reasonable pain threshold. I then taught him the three positions I have slaves adopt in my presence which he quickly grasped. We then had a discussion about what was going to occur today and he advised that he preferred to be surprised by what I had him do. A very good start I felt. I sent him off then to have a shower and prepare himself. He wandered out of the bathroom a few minutes later and was quickly sent back. I grabbed the clippers in one hand and his cock in the other and gave his pubes a quick mowing. Only men have pubes and slaves are expected to be smooth.
As he had advised of some real sadistic experiences with previous Masters I wanted to gain his confidence and trust and so started off just by tying him in a couple of fairly basic positions which were tied off to my spreader bar. I moved him through a number of these quickly so he wasn't left immobilised for too long and got to trust that I wasn't going to hurt him. All the time I edged him to just before the point of no return. The day was drawing to a close and the weather was starting to look ominous and I wanted to put him through his most desired fantasy before it got cold. He had wanted to be staked out and abused. This is quite a challenge in suburban Melbourne but fortunately I had planted wisely when I first bought my house and so it is relatively private in my backyard. I got him to lay down and I put four stakes in the ground and tied an arm or leg to each. Then came the surprise, the fifth stake. To this I tied his balls so they were stretched tight. By the time I had tied the first arm his cock was hard enough to cut steel. I then started to edge him and because he was so turned on I had to stop frequently and give his cock and balls a wack to calm him down. I also went inside and left him there for about ten minutes while I got a few items together. I came out and found him twitching because he was being bitten by a nasty fly. I then proceeded to insert a variety of dildos into him while I continued edging him. To up the anti I also put a stainless steel sounding rod down his cock and moved it up and down as I inserted the dildo with the other hand. Throughout all this he had been blind folded and so he wasn't able to guess what I was up to until it actually happened. At one point the dog came out and started sniffing and licking him which must have been a big surprise for poor slave 15. His cock was weeping pre-cum liberally and twitching like it was being electrocuted. I joked about what would happen if the police helicopter went over head. I eventually released him and we returned inside. Once inside I tied him up again in a number of poses and then tied him to my fuck bench. I pulled his cock through the wank hole and continued edging him. As he was so worked up I stopped occasionally to warm him up a bit with the paddle. The paddle I used not only on his arse but also up both the inside and out side of his legs, along his back and up his sides. The paddling wasn't meant to hurt but was to stimulate his skin and bring him back from the edging. While edging him in this position I also used a variety of dildos on him. After a while I released him from the bench and tied him in a sitting position. I positioned nipple clamps on him and suspended a bottle from the nipple clamps. A bottle you say. Yes a bottle. Bottles are wonderful things as you can gradually fill them with water through a funnel which gives you lots of control over how quickly you increase weights. Later I suspended a much bigger bottle from his balls and filled it also with water. I also had him swing the bottle between his legs. He had brought a humbler with him and so I had him put it on and then had him on his fours in front of me. I used him as a foot stool while I investigated the potential of the humbler. Humblers are wonderful devices which allow you to stretch out the balls and make it impossible for the slave to stand fully upright. When I make my own I will add that little bit extra. I will have a ring on each end so the humbler can be tied to his ankles, to reigns or to the wall. I wonder why no one has thought of that before as it was obvious to me once I started playing with the device. Anyway time was moving on rapidly and so I released slave 15 and had him get me a drink of water. We then had a quiet chat about the session with him in position two (on his knees) in front of me. I used his head as a tray for my drink in between sips. Once I was refreshed I had slave 15 go have a quick shower and went out to dinner with him. About an hour after slave 15 went home the police helicopter went over head.

Monday 27 March 2017

What rocks your boat. I have to admit that for every slave I have ever met there appears to be at least an equal number of fetishes. Every body seems to have different things which turn them on to the point where it almost defies categorisation. Some very basic while others have been very intricate and detailed. For example I had a very nice 20 year old over for some fun last night. Very vanilla and thought kinky was leaving the lights on while we did "it". I found that I only had to tweek his nipples and he would get rock hard. Where as a week ago I found a guy who really got off on being staked out on the lawn before he was used. I recently had a discussion with a guy who was really into piss. Not just a sip or two but bring it on by the bucket as seen from the provided photos.
I am all for a drink of the yellow gold but not to the degree where I put on weight. While on holidays I met a guy who was right into eating and being smeered with shit. All very well but I would have had to explain the mess in the morning to the hotel staff. Another time I met a guy who could only get an erection if both participants wore socks - not cock socks but real socks. Wags the dog liked me to rub his stomach and got off very quickly humping my leg. It is not all visual either, one guy used to get hard at the smell of lavender. It must of been embarrassing if he went to visit old ladies or maybe the reel fetish was the old ladies. Fortunately I am totally normal and don't have any weird fetishes. After all everybody loves to see a blind folded Indian slave boi tied up with his balls stretched to the limit, pubes shaved, nipples clamped and red nail polish.

Tuesday 21 March 2017

Not so straight. I am amazed at the number of straight boys who contact me and want me to tie them up and humiliate them in various ways. Of course they generally don't admit to being straight but it tends to come out later. One of the give-aways is when we get down to anything anal. All of a sudden they are virgins or can't take the pain or don't want to catch anything even with a condom. The only reason I can think of for this phenomenon is they are too frightened to discuss it with their partners. Once the cat is out of the bag you can't pull it back and go back to the good old boring sex days. So it is safer to just play around with a guy off the web.
That is also another point. When a married guy plays around with a guy off the web they feel its not cheating as it is not with a woman. Therefore if ever challenged by the boring love of his life he can say with hand on heart and clear conscience that he hasn't been having an affair with another woman. There is also a bit of self protection generated by guys because of the stigma and general persecution of gays over millennia. Gays are used to hiding in the shadows, and are unlikely to out you to your wife as there is a certain amount of self interest in remaining anonymous even amongst out gays. In some parts of the world it is not considered gay if you have your dick sucked by a guy or if you root a guy. This is because it is seen as the masculine roll. The other guy doing the sucking or receiving of dick is not only gay but could face death by execution. It is also easier to pass a guy off as just a mate. I would like to see the brave guy who went home to the domestic boss and told her he was going camping with a female friend. This then opens another one of Pandora's boxes. How many straight guys go camping while camping? I know from my experience that I haven't had anal sex with a straight guy on a camping trip but I have sucked and played with dick. Even numerous dicks. Woman have also been accused of shagging up the corporate tree. I wonder how many straight guys have had it off with the male boss to get that little bit further. I know I have had a few offers from married guys when I was out being bossy. Just a few points for you all to ponder. I would be interested to know how many of you have had any of these experiences.

Thursday 16 March 2017

Slave feeding. Feeding your slave correctly is very important. Most people under stress will revert their thinking and priorities to the very basics of life such as food, water, sleep etc. This is a well documented phenomenon and has been noted as very important. This is great because it can be used to your advantage as a Master. Slaves when under training are surprise, surprise, under stress. Some get so worked up that they are unable to get erect. Therefore controlling these basics of life also enables the Master to more effectively control the slave. Even over short term periods this can be used to great effect. Take for example one of my favourite pressure tools. During a training session I make a slave regularly drink water or urine but don't allow them to piss until I gauge they are absolutely bursting. In this state they will frequently do something they normally wouldn't in order to have a relieving piss. A few years ago I got a very reluctant slave to drink his first cup of piss, in order that he could have a relieving piss afterwards. The look of horror on his face as he drank the piss was only surpassed by the look of relief as he went outside to piss on the garden. Slaves don't use toilets at my house for a piss. Make sure when its meal times that you eat first and the slave is positioned to watch.
This does a number of things. Firstly if they are hungry in particular, they will have a physical reaction such as mouth watering. This can be enhanced by having their food sitting in their bowl on the ground in front of them as well. It emphasises their position in the relationship which will have greater effect on their mind because they are hungry and under stress. The power of them having to wait until you give approval also strengthens their reliance on you and enhances your authority. Always tell your slave what and when they get to eat, or drink as this reinforces your control. This is very powerful when you are out in restaurants particularly if the waiter is aware that you are selecting their meals. Be careful if you are forcing slaves to drink alcohol. Once they start to get drunk they may display undesirable attitudes which could become open aggression or open hostility to the Master. Stick to water so that you are dealing with the normal slave attitude. Basic hunger and thirst are also powerful motivators. These effects can be enhanced by forced work. I am not a fan of forcing slavers to eat too much. This does cause them discomfort but it makes them useless for any activity.

Saturday 11 March 2017

Out Doors. There is nothing healthier than being in the wide open outdoors. This week I had slave 7 come over for a session. Unfortunately I decided we would need to eat first and we made the mistake of visiting a Mexican Restaurant for dinner. Well Mexican without Margaritas is like a pie without sauce. Not being familiar with the restaurant and faced with a waiter of dubious residency status we ended up with a big bowl rather than a glass each of the tequila bliss. After a great meal we came back to my place for a session. Well as usual on arriving home slave 7 new to remove his clothes. I had the taste and so had him serve me wine. I also made him drink wine. Lots of wine. Once we had finished the wine we started on the Frangelico. In between him serving drinks I would take him out side every so often so I could relieve myself and also give him a nice warm drink to wash down the alcoholic offerings.
While out on one of these piss breaks I realised how warm a night it was and also how dark, as the moon hadn't risen. This gave me a great idea. I grabbed a lead and took slave 7 for a walk around my town. By this stage it was past midnight and not a weekend and so it was very quiet. slave 7 was mortified but fortunately he was compliant. We walked around the town for around 20 minutes. Me in leather chaps and nothing else, him totally naked except for his collar. This was very exciting and I highly recommend it to any one else. We did keep to the shadows but other than that we were open to any prying eyes. What a sight it would have been.

Tuesday 7 March 2017

Balls. Today I thought I might talk about balls. These are amazing things that males have and provide endless possibilities for the imaginative Master. Initially if I have any doubts about the sincerity of a potential slave (which is most of them) I normally give them a task. Usually this involves them providing a current picture in the nude with their Nikes in the photo to prove its current(so they think). I then later request a photo with the same running shoes but this time suspended from their balls by the laces. When I am inspecting a slave for the first time I like to give his balls a real good going over to make sure he understands who owns them and also to impress upon him his position in the big scheme of things. I roll them between my fingers and feel all around them which is very uncomfortable for the slave. I usually give them a slap to gauge their pain threshold. Once I start training the slave there are endless possibilities for my ball collection. I like to suspend weights off them some times or have the slave drag a weight suspended from his balls. This allows me to test their endurance and determination. In order to do this you need to be able to tie them up. This can be challenging if the balls are small as they tend to run around and slide out of loops if you are not careful or if its a bit on the dark side. Nothing like a bit of chastity to also show the slave your superiority. Endless edging and lack of being able to cum leaves the wearer (notice I didn't say owner) of the balls very frustrated and unfulfilled. The sensitive nature of balls is also useful for punishment or discipline. Pegs and clamps on balls hurt when they go on and hurt far more on removal. I like slaves to beg me to take them off as it makes them choose between long term pain or short term excruciating pain. If I am providing a maintenance paddling I like to make sure the slaves balls are well out of the way of the action. If its a punishment paddling then the balls are fair game and I like to rope them so they protrude to increase the hits they receive. Balls also make a great place to grab in order to make a slave move into a new location. I also like to tie the balls up with a spare loop so I can attach a lead. I attach a lead when ever I am in a sex club and want to show off the slave. It is also handy for pony play. Rather than a bridle attached to their mouth, I find I am able to have the slave change direction just as effectively if the reigns are attached to his balls. Balls are also useful when used as reminders. I some times put a pad lock around a slaves balls. This provides an uncomfortable and constant weight even under underwear and so acts as a reminder of their servitude when they are not in your company. As they are a lock they also have no way out until you decide to free them if you control the keys. Be careful when you snib the lock as I have accidentally caused bleeding and bruising by catching his scrotum. Another use for balls is to tie bells around them. Give the slave tasks and you can hear when he is working or bludging off by the frequency of the ringing. It also acts as a weight which we have previously discussed. In an earlier blog I mentioned how I like slaves to walk in front. I have found that a rope tied around the balls and rolled out under his crutch and up over the rear top of his jeans is also handy. Tie a loop in the end and when the slave is walking in front just tug on the loop rather than waste energy ordering him to stop. A yank to either side will also direct him to turn. In conclusion I hope I have given you a few ideas of what to do with a set of slave balls. They are one of the few things of use to a Master.