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I am a Master who is white, 58, fit and fabulous. I have a variety of slaves ranged from 19 to 50. I am strict but fair and do not discriminate against any particular race. Having said that my favorite flavour is black or asian. If there is any copy right material on this site let me know and it will be removed.

Thursday, 16 November 2017

The competition. Well punters I am making a request to get two slaves of similar size, age and level of training into the same room. I always like slaves to be very attentive and so when there are two, the inclination is for them to compete for my attention. Well if they are going to compete I might as well formalise it and make it into a real competition. Here are some of the games that the lucky slaves will be competing in for my enjoyment. Points will be allocated for each competition and the loser at the end will be forced to serve the winner for a day.
One - Tug of war. This is loads of fun. Both slaves are on their knees about a metre apart with their backs to each other. I will then tie an end of a string around each set of balls. The slaves are to take up the slack and try and drag the other slave across a line. The use of a riding crop will add incentive. Two - The wank off. The slaves sit facing each other with their normal wank hand tied behind their back. They then have to wank and cum before the other slave using there unusual hand. Points will be allocated to the winner and the loser cleans up both messes with his tongue. Three - Wrestle mania. The slaves oil each other up and then wrestle until one manages to pin the others shoulders to the ground. I have always thought wrestling was a little gay. Four - Balls away. The slaves have a bucket tied to their balls. They take turns to put a cup of water in their opponents bucket. The first one to give up loses. Five - Peg off. The slaves stand looking at each other. They then take turns to put pegs on their opponents body. At every fifth peg they give the already placed pegs a flick. First one to chicken out loses.
Six - Knock Knock who is there. Both slaves are blind folded. They are armed with a rolled up news paper. They move around a room calling their opposite numbers name. The other slave has to reply. They can take a swing at each other with the paper whenever they like. They get points for each hit. Bonus points for direct hits on balls and minus points for misses. Seven - Out you go. Send them out for two hours. They have to get as many cock shots as possible in that time. Bonus points can be allocated for pictures of the naked slave with a clothed guy or for a naked random guy with the clothed slave. Eight - Suck off. The slaves adopt the 69 position and then have to try and get the other slave to cum before they do. Hands and mouth can both be applied. All cum must be eaten.Nine - Twisted. The slaves play a game of twister but have a short string joining their balls, so their movements are restricted. The loser falls over. Both end up with stretched and painful balls. Ten - Mousetrap. A number of mousetraps are set in a room. The slaves are then blind folded and sent in to the room to do some tasks. The slave who sets off the least number of mousetraps is the winner. Now who wants to play.

Friday, 10 November 2017

A funny thing happened in the dungeon. Well punters sometimes things go awry and are just so funny that you have to lose the stern look and laugh out loud.
Once while at another very finicky and house proud Masters house we were giving a slave a joint work over in the lounge room. He was on his hands and knees and we had been working a very large butt plug up his rectum. The slave was tight and the plug was large and rigid. We had been plastering lube around to almost no effect for 20 minutes when all of a sudden it went fully in to the hilt. There were sighs all round and a big high five. The other Master was about two metres behind the slave taking a picture when the butt plug burst forth collecting him in the head and leaving a trail of lube and liquid shit across the nice polished floor boards. The look of horror on the other Masters face was priceless. Then there was the slave I had masked and tied at the fetish club. The mask had a hole for his mouth but nothing else. I had been on a walk around and had ordered the slave to suck this members cock. It was all going swimmingly and so the random guy was invited back to the private room. As the private rooms are high up on a mezzanine floor they get hot, so I removed the rubber mask. The look on his face was priceless as the random guy was his cousin and neither new the other liked to play.
Another time I picked up a slave at a gay venue and took him into the toilets to check him out. It was more crowded than the 5 pm train to the suburbs and so we had decided to go for a drive. I drove to a nearby lane way that I knew and had him strip for examination in the car. He had been naked just long enough to get a diamond hard cock when a police car with full lights and sirens drove up each end of the lane sandwiching us in the middle. My newly met slave tried vainly to pull his pants over a boner only marginally smaller than the Eiffel tower. Two of the police came over and asked us what we were doing. In a moment of brilliance I said "nothing Sir" which in hind sight must have been the understatement of the year. Under torch light it was a bit hard to miss slave boi trying to get dressed around the boner of the century. Apparently a silent alarm had gone off in one of the adjoining factories and the police were out to investigate. After they had checked out the building they let us go, thankfully with a warning to keep away from lanes. Then there was the time I had a slave nicely bound on my lounge room floor when the dog came in and decided to hump his head. This was nearly as good as the time I had a slave staked out naked on a sand volley ball court. While I pondered the next move along came the neighbours cat and dropped a shit in the sand right beside his head. All priceless. Of all the funny events I think the best was one night while at a fetish gay bar in Melbourne one of the neighbouring factories had a small fire break out. As a consequence the bar was evacuated for safety reasons until the fire brigade got the fire under control. Imagine the scene where there were around 40 guys dressed up in leather looking like Village people standing in the street, with a couple of fire engines pulled up and firemen running around trying to put the fire out. All these hunky firemen running around with fire hoses and all the leather clad gay guys with bare bums visible through their chaps whistling and cat calling them. "Hey honey nice hose" or "come put my fire out spunky" or "do you need me to show you what to do with that hose" with the prize going to the three guys with bare bums poking through chaps, pointed at the firemen going "come answer our 000 call". Triple zero is the emergency telephone number in Australia.

Friday, 3 November 2017

What to do for that first visit. I have written in the past about what I do on first meetings but thought this time I would look at what the slave needs to consider prior to the first visit. First off have a long hard think about what you want to achieve. Do you want a long term relationship or are you wanting just to try being a slave. Is it about sex or is it about wanting to serve. Do you have a broad wish to try out a variety of aspects around servitude or is it about one scenario that gets you off.
I suggest you search the internet and read as much as you can. Talk to Masters and other slaves on line and really get a good understanding of what you want. Next join a fetish group either in person or on line. Online is easier to begin with and sites such as Fetlife and Recon are good starting points. This will enable you to learn the jargon and talk to people with similar interests. When you identify a suitable Master on line talk to them for awhile before you consider meeting. I am not talking weeks but make sure you have a good understanding of what they want and make sure they understand what you want. Always be respectful and make sure you always use their preferred title. Don't be overly familiar and during the discussions always read what the Master has written carefully. If he asks a question always make sure you answer the question fully and in detail. If he has to ask a subsequent question about the same thing then you need to include more detail. This is important as I find it frustrating when I get half answers or no answer to a question. The discussions should also include what the first session will entail. Be specific and work out the program prior to the event. Spontaneity is good but for a first visit a firm program will take a lot of the anxiety out of the meeting. Next work out a good location for the visit. I like to use a local sex on site venue as it has private rooms. There are people on site walking around and so it is unlikely that anyone will feel too venerable. Meetings in private houses or parks always leaves some one feeling nervous for a first visit.
Give the Master a number of possible meeting times so they have a choice. If there is any doubt about being available don't list it. Only list when you are definitely available. Nothing kills a budding relationship like a last minute cancelation. Try to meet fairly soon once you decide to go ahead. A visit a week ahead rarely comes off. Get a list of what is expected of you from the Master and make sure you meet all the requirements. If he wants shaved pubes don't rock up warbling something about how you want him to shave you. If the Master wants to shave you, they wouldn't ask for you to have shaved pubes on arrival. I like slaves to stand respectfully, head bowed, feet apart, hands by their side and motionless outside the meeting venue. I give this as part of my detailed instructions prior to the first session. Nothing pisses me off more than to find the slave standing around gawping at passers bye. Make sure you get there early so if you are delayed there is extra time to catch up if necessary. Once the session begins then do as you are told quickly. Not everything that happens during the session will necessarily be to your liking but bear with it as you won't know until you try it. Talk to the Master and let him know how you a coping as you go (if you are not gagged). At the end of the session give him feedback and be honest about how it went but remember to be respectful. He will find this useful and help him to better meet both your expectations. After each session make sure you send the Master a message of thanks for his time. Masters like this as it shows respect but also gives credit for all the preparation that goes into each session before the slave even shows up.

Wednesday, 25 October 2017

For what 4 for what. I have just come back from interstate and took the opportunity to catch up with slave 4. He is a slave I met in Melbourne while he was on a business trip. He has come down a number of times and we have caught up each time for a bit of a session. This time it was my turn to visit. He has a Master who he services on a regular basis but is allowed to play with me on visits. We met and had a nice dinner and then went back to his apartment. On entering he was made to strip.
His normal Master likes to restrict his cumming and so lately he has been putting him in chastity for ten days at a time. This is a pity as he is soooo funny when he cums that I could make a fortune selling tickets to people to watch the event. His face gets this really pained/ecstatic/shocked look and he twitches around like a snake on crack. He flaps his arms and legs to the point of possible take off. Hilarious. On the other hand when he is in chastity his brain fills up with cum and he becomes this really dumb goofy sort of clown who you just want to shoot out of a cannon and have the elephants step on. There he was in front of me naked except for a chastity cage. Hastily he explained that his normal Master wanted him to be chaste for two weeks and he was a week into what he considered an ordeal. Damn I was looking forward to the cumatron of edging. I made him lie on the bed and then tied him up so he couldn't flap away. I gave his dick dials (nipples) a bit of treatment with my tongue and fingers and started to increase the pressure in the cage. Then I brought out my secret weapon. Having guessed he may be in chastity I had brought some Q-tips with me. I inserted one into the end hole of the cage while slave 4 started to yell out 'NOOOOOOOOOOO'. I then rubbed it all around the head of his cock and watched him fill the cage to the point where there was cock pushing through the cage end and there wasn't room to move the Q-tip. Those little arms were pulling hard against the ropes and his legs twisting all to no avail as I wasn't finished. I continued to edge him on and off for awhile with breaks just long enough to allow enough subsidence for the Q-tip to be moved.
This was fun but I needed more. He was ordered to stand up after he was untied and I cut off the plastic cock cage lock. It was removed and he was ordered into the shower to clean up. He was warned that if he missed any parts that he would be punished. Once he confirmed he was clean I joined him in the shower. He washed me and then was ordered to his knees. He assumed I wanted to be sucked but I pushed his head away. I then started to piss on him and judging by the look on his face this was new to him and not very pleasant. I had been walking a bit around town during the day and it was quite hot and so I was a bit dehydrated. My urine was lets just say, very intense. I then advised him that he wasn't very clean and paddled his arse with my bare hand as punishment. He then was ordered to clean himself properly this time and then go dry himself. Once dry he had to dry me. He was then ordered back on the bed where I edged him for quite awhile. Sometimes I wanked him and sometimes I sucked him. He alternated between begging me to be able to cum and just as quickly saying he had to stay chaste as he didn't want to have his chastity extended by his normal Master. I then had him sit facing me at the end of the bed. He was then ordered to wank for my entertainment but was not to cum. I watched this for awhile with him stopping at the edge of cumming and sometimes with me ordering him to stop. I then had him adopt a kneeling on all fours position. From this position I milked him like a cow except he wasn't allowed to cum. Now for my pleasure. I lay back and he was ordered to suck and wank me until I was happy. I then had him roll onto his back and edged him for just a little bit more. He was then ordered to re-attach the chastity cage. It was now late and so time for me to head back to where I was staying for a good nights sleep. I am tipping slave 4 struggled to get much sleep that night with his balls such a nice shade of blue.

Thursday, 19 October 2017

Fun at home. While I don't have a 'live-in' slave at the moment, I have in the past. One of the difficulties is maintaining the edge to the relationship. This is the same for all relationships even Master/slave relationships.
One way I keep the 'live-in' slave on their toes is to have specialty days. These are always good fun and are only limited by your imagination. The secret is to hold them regularly but not every week or else they lose their impact. One is the wank on demand day. On this day the slave is told that he will have to cum multiple times and that he will be breaking his record. Then at various times through the day he will have to wank for my pleasure and cum each time. This puts a lot of stress on the slave as the day goes on. Another is a dance day. Every time the slave hears music he is to carry out an improvised dance for my entertainment which must last for a minute. This is a good day to go for lift rides and visit supermarkets. It also gives you a chance to listen to some of your CDs.
Then there is the stay lower than Master day. On this day the slave is always to be lower than the Master or he gets punished. This really keeps them 'on' or should I say 'off' their toes as they have to constantly monitor your actions. Then there is the piss on demand day. This day can go either way. Either the slave has to piss every time he is requested or he has to drink every time you want to provide. It can be fine tuned by having him fill a specified container each time but not over fill it. We all know how horrible it is to stop a piss midstream. He is only allowed to piss enough to fill the container and no more. This is a bit of a variation to the next day theme which is the no piss at all day. This is real torture. Advise the slave they are only able to piss after seeking approval. Then leave them until they are begging for release or just wait until they piss themselves and punish them accordingly. I like to make them agree to something they really hate before I give approval. Then there is the punishment when a code word or special item is heard or seen. This can be fun if you are doing something like watching football. Give the slave a specified number of paddles for each goal kicked. Or if you are watching some well known TV show whenever a common phrase is uttered. Make them do 5 push ups every time they see a blue car for the day. This is an extension of the old drinking game. Then there is the blind day. Make them wear a mask all day. Give them tasks to do totally blind. This will test their memory of the house layout and will require lots of ingenuity. Another version of this is to make them wear a sling all day so they only have one arm to use. This is good as it can be used outside as well. So never let a day be boring. Use your imagination to really brighten up your Master/slave relationship.

Sunday, 15 October 2017

The train tease. I thought today I would share a story about an encounter that I had which was not based on the Master/slave construct. I thought I would like to point out that sometimes the most erotic of encounters is with the mind rather than the physical body. This does directly relate to the Master/slave construct and is what any good Master tries to achieve. I have had slaves so scared by their own imagination that you could smell it in the air and they were totally unable to achieve an erection.
On the other hand I have had slaves who were so turned on by the prospect of some activity that their cock was rigid like a steel beam and pulsing at the mere thought. The event I want to talk about happened a year ago over a period of a month. I am a creature of habit and tend to catch the same train and enter the same carriage every night on my way home from work. Normally I will have a look around the carriage and check out the spunks. Its normally crowded and so there is generally a couple worthy of a detailed review. On this particular occasion there was a very hot Asian guy. While checking him out he caught me staring and smiled. What a smile it was too. Big and generous, with white teeth and an innate cheekiness about it. He then looked away which was a little odd. This was good as I could continue to size him up with out being self conscious of my staring.
And then he started. It was all very subtle and to the casual eye it would have been nothing but as we had shared that smile I realised that it was for my entertainment. First he lifted the front of his T-shirt and showed me his flat belly. Slowly he traced that line of hair down from his navel to just under the top of his pants. To the other passengers it was him scratching his belly but I knew differently. Then a few moments later he started to lick his lips slowly and sensuously. Running his tongue over first his top lip and then his bottom lip. All was not over as he brought his hand over the front of his pants and squeezed slightly so I could see the out line of his package. And so it went on. All the time he was looking else where, with only the slyest looks to gauge my reactions. Eventually he got off the train and left me with a very nice smile and a very hard erection. This was not the end of it. Every two or three days he would appear in my train carriage and the teasing would go on. Some times it was the lifting up of the shirt, the hand in the pocket playing with himself, the cheeky smile and once he even had an open fly and would open it up with a hand in his pocket; so I could get a peak of his underwear. I often thought about following him off the train but he got off at different stations making it hard to anticipate. In the end I decided it was better left as a fantasy. Then all of a sudden he stopped appearing. After maybe a month he was no more than a very pleasant memory.

Tuesday, 3 October 2017

Test run on an experienced slave. I recently had an older more experienced slave contact me wanting a training session. This slave had served a number of different Masters over extended periods of time and had done everything from arm pits to erogenous zones. He appeared comfortable with most things except blood, scat and permanent damage which is fairly common as far as boundaries go. We arranged to meet at my place and he was told to appear, collared and kneeling at my door, on time and shaved smooth.
At the witching hour there was a tap at the door. There was my slave in collar and on his knees waiting my pleasure. A pleasure it was, as he had decided to give me a bonus. He was totally naked and already had a chastity device installed on his cock. He was around 5'10", slim build, slightly balding buzz cut hair and with a reasonable but not over muscled body. Body wise he was smooth with a smallish but not unreasonable cut cock. I waited to open the door while I took in this great picture. Fortunately my front door is reasonably protected by a tree from neighbours eyes. I eventually told him to come in and bring his things. I get approached by slaves all the time professing that they are experienced but when put to the test regularly fall way short. So I put him to the test. On your knees boi. Take off my socks I ordered - with your teeth. He did this and was ordered to worship my feet. My feet had been clean an hour or so ago but in that time they had spent some time in shoes and so they had a certain ambience. He ran his tongue all over my feet and between the toes. Sucking gently on each toe as he went. Licking the whole length of the sole and around the ankles. After awhile he was told to move to the other foot. I enjoyed this for a good 15-20 minutes and then moved on to test two. He was ordered to now lick my arm pits. Without hesitation his tongue darted into the black abyss and started with a long lick from bottom to top. He then flicked his tongue in and out and twisted it in a circular motion so that he created little dread locks and thoroughly ingested the scent. At some point he switched to the other side and gave it similar attention. Tick to test two. Now boi undo my belt and pants but only use your tongue. He struggled with this but got there in the end. I helped him pull down my pants and jocks and then sent him to work on my penis. Once again it was a hands free exercise. He proved to be a competent tongue-ologist and successfully edged me many times over an extended period. His cock was by now dribbling uncontrollably with pre-cum. Lie on the ground on your back boi was his next task. I played with the cock cage a bit and gave it a good twist, slap and pull. I tweeked his nipples and found them to be very sensitive and so I put a pair of nipple clamps on him to see how he went. This he found painful and twisted and turned like dog rolling in horse shit. I removed them after a short while and gave each nipple a good flick to bring them home. I then sat on his face and had him lick my balls. After this I moved so he could polish my ring. He was not shy in getting his tongue right up into my hole and was skilful in the way he was able to dart his tongue around the area. By the time he finished on my hole it was clean and shiny and cleamed like the sun was shining out of it. I then had him kneel head down in front of me.
He had brought a new butt plug with a whippy dog tail on it for my pleasure. I lubed it and him up and try as I might we couldn't get the thing in him fully. This was disappointing but he promised to buy another one which was slightly thinner so it will be a pleasure for the future. He professed to giving a good massage and so off to the bed room we went. I had him act as my man servant and remove and fold my clothes. He then gave a very good massage which went for around an hour and literally started with a head massage and finished with a toe massage after covering all parts in between. He was then sent to work (no hands) on my cock with his mouth. A bit more edging until I wanted to cum. When I cum he took the full load in his mouth and disposed of it thoughtfully in the toilet. He then was ordered to dress me again. We went out to the lounge room where I had him clean up the various dribble, lube and cum deposits and then sent him on his way. A job well done.