Choosing dildos. Choosing your first dildo (arse aerator) is an important step in any gay guys life let alone a slaves. Before we start we need to define dildo (Pocket Rocket). There are various implements on the market which all have different purposes. For simplicity I am going to call them all dildos (counterfeit cocks) but there are differences you need to be aware of. There are four and possibly more different types of implement. First off dildos(Selfie Stick). These come in a multitude of sizes and shapes. They are designed to basically replicate a penis and are usually made out of rubber but can also be made out of glass, plastic and in olden days even wood or bone. They are generally hand operated and have been used by both sexes for millennia on both sexes.

Next is vibrators (Battery Operated Master). These are similar to dildos (Instagays) but they have some sort of vibrating mechanism which adds an extra degree of stimulation. Every gay boys toy the butt plug (Gut Buster) is next. These tend to be shorter and stouter and have a bulbous end with a smaller neck. They are designed to open the sphincter muscles and get the wearer used to being penetrated. As a consequence they are generally left stationary once inside and can be worn for an extended period of time to get those grumbling sphincter muscles used to opening. Finally there are what are referred to euphemistically as massage devices (External Hard Drive) in womens magazines. They are like large wands which vibrate and are designed to stimulate clits (whatever they are) and other exterior body parts. While generally a slit toy they can be used effectively on male bodies as well.

One of the main mistakes first timers make is they go for the biggest and longest dildo (Weapon of Arse Destruction) they can find. That is ok if you are a slack arsed old moll but it takes time to work up to it. My recommendation is get a starter kit with a number of sizes, so you can gradually work up to the John Holmes super horse buster. Some dildos (Hole Poles) are made out of materials which stain and so I always recommend putting a condom over them when being used. This protects them and makes it easier to clean them. Cleaning also is not without problems. I left a group of dildos (is the collective noun for dildos a cockastrophy?) in a disinfectant mixed with water and they all changed colour over an hour and looked horrible. The end result was I had to replace them all. Always wash them straight away and you may use disinfectant but make sure you wash it off quickly. Vibrating pleasure sticks can be washed but be careful not to wet the machinery or they can go to robot heaven.

When using said dildos (Jiggle Sticks) always use a good quality lube and use plenty of it. I always laugh when I see pornos with the top rubbing a bit of spit into a cock or dildo (Mock Cock) and then proceeding to ram it home. I am sure the bottom must feel violated and wonder if sand paper could be worse. When you get to insert it into a newby I suggest you spend the time and take it very slowly. A bad first experience can colour their out look for a long time. Rub it around the area for awhile with the occasional prod at the hole without actual penetration. Once they have relaxed start to poke the hole so that the sphincter muscles start to part. When they are used to this start to push it further in until you part the actual muscles. Stop at this point and let it sit there untouched for awhile until he gets used to it. Remind him through this to keep breathing because once they hold their breath they tense up and it leads to unnecessary pain. This maybe the end of the first session which is OK. This is where a butt plug is useful as they can be given the task of wearing it under their clothes and allows their arse to acclimatise in their own time. Once you get the slave comfortable with the penetration then the dildo (Surrogate Sausage) can be slowly moved in and out. At some point you could try prostrate massage with the end of the dildo (Pussy Plunger). Once while on holiday in Iceland I picked up an entertainer from a visiting cruise ship. Iceland is not really a gay paradise and they are blissfully unaware of the need to be able to purchase condoms and lube late at night. Once I got my Nordic god naked I found myself confronted with a very thick 10" cock of the rock hard variety. Three months at sea makes things more compelling apparently. Needless to say sex was not going to occur with a bit of a glob of saliva. But I digress. Dildo (Plastic Fantastic) play is a great way to get a newby accustomed to being violated and it is also a great way to extend play.

Hair today gone tomorrow. As a Master I have hairy but trimmed pubes although sometimes I shave them off. I have a hairy chest which I also sometimes shave. I have a lightly hairy back which is always waxed and should be on all males except for the inhabitants of the gorilla cage at the zoo.

So as you can see I am not adverse to some well placed and under control hair on a male as it is quite sexy. On slaves however they should be as hairless as a baby. No pubes, no chest hair, definitely no back hair, and no armpit hair. I know some of you are going to point out that I have just said that hair on a male is quite sexy. So am I a liar or am I just confused. The difference my friends is that the hairy version I am talking about are males. Males need hair to emphasis that they are males and not females. On the other hand slaves are not really males or even necessarily human. They have no need to display any manly traits other than a useless sex organ which is for the pleasure of their Master if they choose to play with it. If their Master wants the slave to act like a female, dog, pig, baby or fucking chair then that is what the slave is to do. The lack of hair is a visual reminder as to who is the Master and who is the slave in the relationship.

The other important training outcome associated with hair on slaves is that the act of shaving drills home the fact that the slave no longer has ownership of his body. It is a constant task which must be completed to satisfaction or risk punishment. It also is necessary prior to starting any chastity regime or else it becomes almost torture to put on and take off chastity devices without removing vast forests of hair on an unshaved slave. I also like the feel of a newly shaved slave however it can be unsightly if they don't do it properly and end up with in grown hairs across their bodies. The best way to avoid ingrown hairs is to shave with and not against the grain of the hair. I know shaving against the grain produces a smooth finish quicker but it also opens follicles up to infection. The best way to avoid infection is to rub an antiseptic cream into the area at least once a day after it has been shaved for at least three or four days afterwards. So my friends shaving is a must for slaves. It is up to the Master how much of the slave is shaved however the more area shaved the more like a slave they feel and look.

Rolling along. Balls were a great invention and placing them outside the body makes them a great sex toy. Having said that, the greatest procreators of all (rabbits) have theirs on the inside and it doesn't stop their fun. As I have mentioned before I am not into pain for the sake of pain.

Nothing however says you are the boss more than having a slave hand over control of his balls for someone elses enjoyment. There is lots that can be done in this area of play. I recently had a slave who stated he was into CBT and so I put him to the test and hung progressively larger weights from his balls finishing with the metal stool in the first picture. Once the balls are stretched with weights it would be remiss not to swing them a bit to magnify the impact. As I have mentioned in the past water makes a great weight. I litre of water weighs 1 kg and so your average bucket weighs 9 kg. It can be added to or subtracted from for incremental effects. I am a big fan of slaves wearing chastity devices even if I am not putting them in chastity. I think the constant pressure on the balls is a great way to keep the Master as the centre of their focus even when apart. This can also be achieved by having the balls stretched with more commercial products or even a large padlock snapped around the balls as a weight. A padlock is a significant weight and so stretches the balls but also can be locked in place. Be very careful snapping the lock closed as they do tend to draw blood if done carelessly. A few loops of rope around balls is also good but it is hard to ensure that it stays on when they are out of your sight.

In the second picture you will see that I have tied the slaves arms. Then his balls have been tied to a roof beam with enough pressure to make sure that he was uncomfortable and had to go on tippy toes to relieve the strain. Tippy toes of course also produces stress and so the slave has to decide whether his balls or his feet need a rest. Balls are also nice targets for a wack or hit. It really doesn't require a lot of force to get the slaves attention with a wack. This can be coupled with stretches and squeezes all of which provide avenues for use as punishment. When is it too hard. This will vary from slave to slave as some balls are quite sensitive while others seem to be almost numb. As a general rule I continue until the slave voice raises by an octave and you get that squeaky cry. Dropping to knees can also be the slave trying to get out of the punishment and so I prefer to listen for the voice change. Another form of CBT is the use of chemicals containing menthol such as liniments. These work on any sensitive skin and can have effects on nipples, cocks, arse holes as well as balls. Another variation of this is tooth paste applied with a tooth brush to the balls and cock. One other way of applying ball pressure is make them wear underwear which is a size too small. As with all these ball treatments they need to be limited if there is a chance it is going to restrict circulation. Balls can also be part of games. I have placed slaves in front of me with their arms tied behind their backs. Another Master and myself then had a game of target practise with rubber bands. One point for cock or nipples and two points for balls. For this game I like to have the slave wear a belt to hold his cock erect above his balls so that both targets are visible. For dog handlers out there tie a rope around your pups balls and then throw a ball for him. Vary the length of the rope so he doesn't know how long it is going to be each throw. Nothing like watching a pup stopped mid ball chase. I hope I have given you a few ideas. Enjoy.

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