Porridge is OK too. Save the bacon and eggs for special occasions. I have had a reader contact me and tell me that he thought he would like to be a slave but felt I was too extreme. His particular thing was to be tied spread eagle and then edged mercilessly.

My advice to him was to go for it. I have lots of people contact me in order to use my skills and services. A lot are quite vanilla and may only want a little humiliation or just to be tied up and left alone. I enjoy these sessions just as much as sessions with slave Do What You Want Sir. My blog may look a bit extreme but that is only because I can only write about vanilla experiences for so long before both my readers and I go to sleep. I quite often may find some little point during a more mundane session which gives me an idea for a blog entry. The little point then becomes the topic rather than a blow by blow of the actual session. Therefore feel free to contact me if you would like to explore some personal kink. It may seem vanilla to you but who knows it may cause my mind to light up like a Christmas tree and generate a story. As I am also quite creative you may find that I can expand your kink to a far wider and more unexpected direction.

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A little surprise. Slaves view of proceedings. So I arrived at Melbourne. I rarely come to this city, usually traveling elsewhere for work. I've had some previous experience with an incredibly patient edging Master who managed to convince me over the course of a year to play with a chastity cage. So in my rush to pack for the Melbourne trip, I brought the cage, and didn't bring enough clothes or toiletries. I think Sir will be pleased with my priorities? [Monday Night - Texting on RECON...] [me]: Its more of an idea Sir...I brought a chastity cage with me. I have been trying to practice with it recently (stretching and get used to it). You are probably busy and don't have much time for last minute play from a random guy. I thought I could just turn up and you can lock a real padlock on it and keep the key until Wednesday (I leave Thursday). I thought the idea is both scary and exciting in a way Sir. No need to play if you don't want or are too busy. [Sir]: Yes that could be interesting. [Sir]: As your visiting it might be easier if I come to you. [me]: I think I blew it with the timing of the idea. I should have said so hours ago. [me]: Visiting is ok Sir. I'm just at {Hotel Location}. [me]: Let me know what you think and how you might like to arrange it Sir. [Sir]: Well I could come tomorrow and put on the lock. I would have some time to play. We could do some basic slave training if you would like. I am not working tomorrow so when would be a good time? [me]: I'm down here for work Sir. I finish at 5pm. Sorry I can't be earlier. I'm in room {xxx}. I didn't bring a padlock either Sir. I wasn't really expecting or planning this, until I read your blog... [me]: I'm working just 9-5pm Sir. [Sir]: Ok that works for me. I will arrive at 5:15 pm with a lock. [me]: Ok Sir... (I'm just having an "oh shit" moment...)... see you tomorrow... I'm in room {xxx} Sir. Let me know where to meet? [Sir]: I will text you when I arrive and you can come down to pick me up. [Sir]: I can only stay till 6pm so it will be a taste only. [me]: No problems Sir. Thank you for agreeing to this randomness Sir. [Sir]: Boi I will make it. My mobile if there are issues {xxxx xxx xxx}. [me]: Well I'm glad you are looking forward to it Sir. I'm still having an oh shit moment... [Sir]: Boi there is no need to panic. Everything is consensual. You will not be forced to do anything you are uncomfortable with. A hotel is a fairly public place so you are in a safe place. [Sir]: What sort of cock cage is the chastity device? [me]: Ok ok thanks Sir. This is just new and different to me and I didn't think you would say yes.... I have a Holy Trainer 1 Sir. It takes those small airport type padlocks Sir...

[Monday Night and The Next Day...] I constantly wondered if Sir would back out. I wondered if I was being too reckless and foolish, letting a stranger with a blog use a metal padlock without ever meeting or knowing him first. I was anxious and nervous all day. The "stranger danger" alarm bell kept ringing in my head. Oh shit maybe he won't unlock me. Should I back out...? Maybe Sir might back out...? What if this happens...? What if that happens...? Should I back out...? Maybe Sir might back out...? [Tuesday 5pm - Texting on phone...] [Sir]: In hotel foyer come get me. Black leather coat. [me]: Hi Sir. I'm coming down. At the lift. White shirt Sir. Oh Shit. Oh Shit. This guy is for real. When the lift doors opened. Sir was already standing there waiting. For an instant, I stood there frozen in shock, horrified by the sight in front of me, regretting this entire endeavour. I think my eyes were bulging as big as dinner plates. Standing right next to Sir was my colleague who had travelled with me and she was very puzzled as to why I wasn't coming out of the lift. And I didn't have an explanation for refusing to come out of THAT closet. Fortunately I think Sir caught on to the situation and didn't say anything in the lift. I hope my colleague just thought I was being goofy. I was scheduled to have drinks with her later in the evening... Wonderful. Just wonderful... Once inside, Sir told me to get undressed and inspected every part of me. He taught me three different attention positions and asked about my previous experiences. I hadn't cum for five days and was already feeling too horny. I was in that confused state of mind where I really wanted to cum but knew I really shouldn't displease Sir, and I was still a bit nervous about being locked up without the key. Sir then announced I was going to be edged the entire session before being locked. That was another shock too. I paused, I wanted to say "no" because I'll be too frustrated and distracted to think about anything else afterwards (I do have an appointment with the boss and colleagues after this!). I had just expected a quick lock and leave and at most some "light" "slave training" garnish. But I caught the words before they came out and Sir then spent the entire time edging and bringing me close to cumming. It was difficult trying to fight the urge to cum. I came close to blowing it several times, but Sir would always stop just before I tipped over the edge. It was frustrating as hell and the knowledge that I'd be locked up later on added to the frustration. It is difficult to fully enjoy being edged when you know there isn't going to be any release afterwards. I tensed up, rigid, trying to hold back all the time to avoid exploding. And then there is still the "stranger danger" alarm bell still ringing in the corner of my mind. I didn't think that the "slave training" would be a full blown edging session. Several times I just wanted to ask Sir if I could cum, because everyone knows when you're desperate, there's always a better chance you might win the lottery, right?. But Sir wouldn't give permission. Sometime I just bit my lips and groaned at the next denial. Each time getting close, but not quite getting there... I also had my hands tied up, mainly because I tend to flail around when frustrated and denied. It was an hour of relentless edging with few breaks and even a toothbrush thrown into the mix. By the end of it, I was engorged and my ballsac had almost disappeared into my body, ready in the anticipation that I might cum. But of course not. Sir was serious about going through with this. I felt a bit trapped when I saw the padlock. I couldn't back out of this anymore. It then occurred to me that I don't even know where Sir lives. I don't even know his name. All I have is a strangers phone number and once the lock snapped on, Sir got ready to leave. He said he MIGHT come back. He MIGHT not. The alarm bells grew louder. He told me to be a good boi, I nodded enthusiastically, I was feeling very agreeable, hoping that would make him come back, hoping he might leave a spare key. I wanted to change my mind. I wanted to "suggest" that he might leave a spare key for me. But he was already out the door, and I was only wearing a cage with a secured metal lock. My boss was actually staying on the same floor. I didn't want another disastrous encounter. It was a tiny hotel and all the rooms were near the lift. I had to close the door quickly. Oh shit, too late, there he goes. He didn't leave a spare key. He was gone. Is Sir going to come back?

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Punishment part two. I have touched on punishment in an earlier post and decided it was time to expand on the subject a bit more. I am not sadistic and so I am not really into using pain on a slave. I have done so when it is the slaves particular kink but it is not really my thing. Punishment is an important tool in the Masters kit bag and should not be feared but it should be used sparingly in my opinion. I use punishment to reinforce good behaviour and to reduce the incidence of bad behaviour.

I also use it to induce uncertainty, fear and nervousness in a slave. For example I recently had a slave in my bath tub that I used as a toilet. He was hosed with my hose, from head to toe and made to open his mouth and drink my piss. This is very useful as the slave is lower than you and so it reinforces his place in the relationship and is very humiliating. There is a down side though as you have a wet dripping slave that is very messy, that you have to get from the bath to the shower. You could make him clean up the mess trail later but that doesn't play with their mind. My solution is that I get a bucket of water which I pour over them so they are relatively clean before I move them. Before I pour the water over the slave I ask if they know whether the water is hot, cold or warm. I ask them to tell me what sort of water temperature they deserve for their service. This puts the slave under mental pressure. I also make a big deal of it and so I stretch it out to make sure I get the full mental benefit out of the situation. I recently had a slave so worked up that he thought he was going to have cold water thrown over him and so he said "No Master" to me as I went to pour. As it turned out the water was warm. So I poured it over him but then told him to stay put and went and got some cold water. We then had another discussion about saying "NO" to a Master and he got the cold water treatment. This was doubly effective as he had been warm from the initial washing and the punishment matched the crime. When awarding punishment I think it needs a certain amount of theatre to get the full benefit from the activity. So I always make sure I get the slave involved in his own punishment. This starts with the slave having to prepare for the punishment. I tell them to go get the paddle, strap, spanking chair, cane etc. Then we have a discussion about what they had done that pissed me off. Then I get them to determine their own punishment. I warn them that if they are too light on the recommendation that I will double or triple the amount. I get them to determine not only what type of punishment but also the amount of punishment. Once again its the whole playing with their mind thing that I really enjoy. At the end of the day, I quite often will ignore their suggestion and do what I was going to do anyway with possibly something entirely different. This once again plays with their minds and reinforces that they do not know what I am thinking. If I do go with their suggestions, I will generally reduce the amount, so I can point out to them how merciful I am and how I am looking after their best interests. The over riding thing I think with punishment is that it should match the crime and so some form of paddling will not always give the best result and quite often just shows the slave that you lack imagination. Hence for example, I had a slave cook me a far from palatable meal once. I told him that as it was pig food that he could eat his like a pig and made him eat it off the floor, after I had spat in it.

Pain for fun. If you have read my blog you don't have to go far to see comments from me about inflicting pain. Its not really my thing as I am more interested in power transfer and so don't go out of my way to inflict pain. I don't shirk it either and so if a slave misbehaves then there is likely to be pain inflicted to correct the action if it fits the crime. I was contacted by slave 3 who was into pain and wanted me to push his boundaries. Fortunately my wish to be the purveyor of fantasies overcame my reticence to inflict pain. On my way to the fetish sex club with slave 3 I visited my favourite sex shop and purchased an electro kit. He was not told prior what I was doing and so the purchase of the kit was a bit of a surprise. He had never had electro done on him before and so it added to his fear, excitement, and anticipation. Once there I decided not to use the electro kit as I felt it would be a good idea to read the instructions first and try it out on my self so I knew what I was inflicting. I didn't relish the though of a Kentucky fried slave even if they are toe licking good. I will save the story of the electro kit for a future post. I think slave 3 was a bit disappointed and also a bit relieved.

I am not expert on inflicting pain but I am creative and I think I was able to broaden slave 3 pain threshold quite a bit with not so much the level of pain as with the variety of pain. First off I made sure he was blind folded as I think that not knowing where or when the pain is arriving is a big part of the excitement. He was tied standing with fully spread arms and legs for good access. I used three types of strapping devices. I used my hand which I find is very effective and had no difficulty in giving full swings. He also felt the full power of my paddle. Its small for good access and rough so it really stings. Lastly I used a strip of leather which is thick and strong and can flick around body corners. Some new Masters concentrate on the buttocks which is obviously a prime target. There are other body parts which are far more sensitive. The inside, front, rear, and out side of thighs are particularly sensitive and you can quite often catch a bit of sausage and two veg for added surprise. I gave his cock and balls a working over obviously not full swings but good and intense taps. He got some down his sides which are particularly sensitive and across his shoulders and around his nipples. I also liked to spread his arse cheeks and get the paddle into the inside which is really intense. As well as the straps I used nipple clamps on him. Surprisingly they go well on nipples but I also applied them with varying pain levels to, his balls, around his foreskin, in the eye of his cock, where his chest joins his arm pits, above his cock where he would normally have pubes, the inside of his thighs, and that little piece of skin between his balls and arse. If he wasn't wearing a mask I would have included ears, lips and tongue. I also found out that slave 3 was particularly ticklish. Tickling is an extremely painful experience for a bound slave if applied correctly. I would put him through a pain session and then to show him that I appreciated his experiences I would give him an extended hug while he recovered. I mixed the strapping, tickling, nipple clamping and hugging up a bit and revisited each of the tools a few times. All up our session went for nearly 6 hours which is very intense for both Master and slave. Not all of it was centred around pain as I always do an inspection, train the three poses and put the slave in a variety of bondage positions. This particular slave I had service a Traddie top who wandered past before he serviced me. He was also used as a toilet and paraded around the club naked. A big day had by all and a lot of fun - even the pain part.