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I am a Master who is white, 58, fit and fabulous. I have a variety of slaves ranged from 19 to 50. I am strict but fair and do not discriminate against any particular race. Having said that my favorite flavour is black or asian. If there is any copy right material on this site let me know and it will be removed.

Wednesday 22 November 2017

Water for training purposes. Water is one of the cheapest and most effective tools in slave training. If used correctly this harmless, liquid can instil terror and instant obedience. Drinking. Depending on the slave I sometimes immobilise them by tying them or if they are more advanced in their training, I put them in a spot on top of towels and plastic. I then force them to drink lots of water until they can't hold it any more. At this point they will agree to anything to be allowed to piss. So if you want to negotiate a month of chastity or some other unliked task, then this is the time to get their agreement. Alternatively promise punishment if they piss with out approval and let them go until they actually wet them selves. This then gives you a reason to punish and also is very embarrassing for the slave. Weights. Water makes a wonderful weight particularly when applied to balls or nipples. I like to suspend a bucket or bottle from the balls of a slave and then gradually fill it with water. This is a great method of applying weight as it can be gradually applied. I find this increases the slaves ability to take the pain. You can even make it into a game with water being added or subtracted for correct or wrong answers. Trivial pursuit for the twisted and bent.
Punishment. Water is also good as a punishment. A good dousing in cold water will quickly change a slaves attitude. I have also played a game with this fun substance where I have poured buckets of water over a slave over an extended period of time. They have not known whether it will be warm or cold water until it hits them. The looks on their little faces is hilarious. For those into breath control a good head dunking, is a good way of restricting breathing and can be applied over an extended period of time. For those into torture (which I am not) then it can be used for water boarding. Bind the slave then cover his face with a towel and pour water over it. This simulates the feeling of drowning. Reward. After being made to crawl through cold muddy water or some horrible smelly substance a nice warm bath or shower can be used to reward the slave.
Exercise. Water is a great medium if you like to employ forced exercise methods in your training. Unless you have your own pool it can also add a bit of public display into the mix. I have taken a slave to a pool for a forced exercise session and made him spend a bit of time totally naked in the dressing rooms, displaying his body to any who looked slightly interested. This particular slave liked to be publicly humiliated but only a little bit and nothing likely to cause arrest. So having him wander around the dressing rooms for awhile was a good way of meeting this need. He was directed to shower and maintain a semi hard on with washing and then to dry himself with a hair dryer as if he had forgotten his towel. One of the old guys in the dressing room was obviously interested and so I had him stand near him and give him a real good look. It made the old guys day and probably caused it to be his last day, with a heart attack on the way home. Humiliation. There is nothing more humiliating than doing something nude and totally exposed under supervision. I quite often make a slave have a supervised shower or bath. Have a Master (there is more effect if the slave doesn't know the Master) with them in the bath room and have them directed on how to wash and dry themselves. I quite often give punishment for every drop of water I find on them when they declare they are finished drying. Once they have declared them selves clean, I have them kneel in the shower and then piss on them. I then tell them they are liars as they smell disgusting. They then have to go through the process again.

Thursday 16 November 2017

The competition. Well punters I am making a request to get two slaves of similar size, age and level of training into the same room. I always like slaves to be very attentive and so when there are two, the inclination is for them to compete for my attention. Well if they are going to compete I might as well formalise it and make it into a real competition. Here are some of the games that the lucky slaves will be competing in for my enjoyment. Points will be allocated for each competition and the loser at the end will be forced to serve the winner for a day.
One - Tug of war. This is loads of fun. Both slaves are on their knees about a metre apart with their backs to each other. I will then tie an end of a string around each set of balls. The slaves are to take up the slack and try and drag the other slave across a line. The use of a riding crop will add incentive. Two - The wank off. The slaves sit facing each other with their normal wank hand tied behind their back. They then have to wank and cum before the other slave using there unusual hand. Points will be allocated to the winner and the loser cleans up both messes with his tongue. Three - Wrestle mania. The slaves oil each other up and then wrestle until one manages to pin the others shoulders to the ground. I have always thought wrestling was a little gay. Four - Balls away. The slaves have a bucket tied to their balls. They take turns to put a cup of water in their opponents bucket. The first one to give up loses. Five - Peg off. The slaves stand looking at each other. They then take turns to put pegs on their opponents body. At every fifth peg they give the already placed pegs a flick. First one to chicken out loses.
Six - Knock Knock who is there. Both slaves are blind folded. They are armed with a rolled up news paper. They move around a room calling their opposite numbers name. The other slave has to reply. They can take a swing at each other with the paper whenever they like. They get points for each hit. Bonus points for direct hits on balls and minus points for misses. Seven - Out you go. Send them out for two hours. They have to get as many cock shots as possible in that time. Bonus points can be allocated for pictures of the naked slave with a clothed guy or for a naked random guy with the clothed slave. Eight - Suck off. The slaves adopt the 69 position and then have to try and get the other slave to cum before they do. Hands and mouth can both be applied. All cum must be eaten.Nine - Twisted. The slaves play a game of twister but have a short string joining their balls, so their movements are restricted. The loser falls over. Both end up with stretched and painful balls. Ten - Mousetrap. A number of mousetraps are set in a room. The slaves are then blind folded and sent in to the room to do some tasks. The slave who sets off the least number of mousetraps is the winner. Now who wants to play.

Friday 10 November 2017

A funny thing happened in the dungeon. Well punters sometimes things go awry and are just so funny that you have to lose the stern look and laugh out loud.
Once while at another very finicky and house proud Masters house we were giving a slave a joint work over in the lounge room. He was on his hands and knees and we had been working a very large butt plug up his rectum. The slave was tight and the plug was large and rigid. We had been plastering lube around to almost no effect for 20 minutes when all of a sudden it went fully in to the hilt. There were sighs all round and a big high five. The other Master was about two metres behind the slave taking a picture when the butt plug burst forth collecting him in the head and leaving a trail of lube and liquid shit across the nice polished floor boards. The look of horror on the other Masters face was priceless. Then there was the slave I had masked and tied at the fetish club. The mask had a hole for his mouth but nothing else. I had been on a walk around and had ordered the slave to suck this members cock. It was all going swimmingly and so the random guy was invited back to the private room. As the private rooms are high up on a mezzanine floor they get hot, so I removed the rubber mask. The look on his face was priceless as the random guy was his cousin and neither new the other liked to play.
Another time I picked up a slave at a gay venue and took him into the toilets to check him out. It was more crowded than the 5 pm train to the suburbs and so we had decided to go for a drive. I drove to a nearby lane way that I knew and had him strip for examination in the car. He had been naked just long enough to get a diamond hard cock when a police car with full lights and sirens drove up each end of the lane sandwiching us in the middle. My newly met slave tried vainly to pull his pants over a boner only marginally smaller than the Eiffel tower. Two of the police came over and asked us what we were doing. In a moment of brilliance I said "nothing Sir" which in hind sight must have been the understatement of the year. Under torch light it was a bit hard to miss slave boi trying to get dressed around the boner of the century. Apparently a silent alarm had gone off in one of the adjoining factories and the police were out to investigate. After they had checked out the building they let us go, thankfully with a warning to keep away from lanes. Then there was the time I had a slave nicely bound on my lounge room floor when the dog came in and decided to hump his head. This was nearly as good as the time I had a slave staked out naked on a sand volley ball court. While I pondered the next move along came the neighbours cat and dropped a shit in the sand right beside his head. All priceless. Of all the funny events I think the best was one night while at a fetish gay bar in Melbourne one of the neighbouring factories had a small fire break out. As a consequence the bar was evacuated for safety reasons until the fire brigade got the fire under control. Imagine the scene where there were around 40 guys dressed up in leather looking like Village people standing in the street, with a couple of fire engines pulled up and firemen running around trying to put the fire out. All these hunky firemen running around with fire hoses and all the leather clad gay guys with bare bums visible through their chaps whistling and cat calling them. "Hey honey nice hose" or "come put my fire out spunky" or "do you need me to show you what to do with that hose" with the prize going to the three guys with bare bums poking through chaps, pointed at the firemen going "come answer our 000 call". Triple zero is the emergency telephone number in Australia.

Friday 3 November 2017

What to do for that first visit. I have written in the past about what I do on first meetings but thought this time I would look at what the slave needs to consider prior to the first visit. First off have a long hard think about what you want to achieve. Do you want a long term relationship or are you wanting just to try being a slave. Is it about sex or is it about wanting to serve. Do you have a broad wish to try out a variety of aspects around servitude or is it about one scenario that gets you off.
I suggest you search the internet and read as much as you can. Talk to Masters and other slaves on line and really get a good understanding of what you want. Next join a fetish group either in person or on line. Online is easier to begin with and sites such as Fetlife and Recon are good starting points. This will enable you to learn the jargon and talk to people with similar interests. When you identify a suitable Master on line talk to them for awhile before you consider meeting. I am not talking weeks but make sure you have a good understanding of what they want and make sure they understand what you want. Always be respectful and make sure you always use their preferred title. Don't be overly familiar and during the discussions always read what the Master has written carefully. If he asks a question always make sure you answer the question fully and in detail. If he has to ask a subsequent question about the same thing then you need to include more detail. This is important as I find it frustrating when I get half answers or no answer to a question. The discussions should also include what the first session will entail. Be specific and work out the program prior to the event. Spontaneity is good but for a first visit a firm program will take a lot of the anxiety out of the meeting. Next work out a good location for the visit. I like to use a local sex on site venue as it has private rooms. There are people on site walking around and so it is unlikely that anyone will feel too venerable. Meetings in private houses or parks always leaves some one feeling nervous for a first visit.
Give the Master a number of possible meeting times so they have a choice. If there is any doubt about being available don't list it. Only list when you are definitely available. Nothing kills a budding relationship like a last minute cancelation. Try to meet fairly soon once you decide to go ahead. A visit a week ahead rarely comes off. Get a list of what is expected of you from the Master and make sure you meet all the requirements. If he wants shaved pubes don't rock up warbling something about how you want him to shave you. If the Master wants to shave you, they wouldn't ask for you to have shaved pubes on arrival. I like slaves to stand respectfully, head bowed, feet apart, hands by their side and motionless outside the meeting venue. I give this as part of my detailed instructions prior to the first session. Nothing pisses me off more than to find the slave standing around gawping at passers bye. Make sure you get there early so if you are delayed there is extra time to catch up if necessary. Once the session begins then do as you are told quickly. Not everything that happens during the session will necessarily be to your liking but bear with it as you won't know until you try it. Talk to the Master and let him know how you a coping as you go (if you are not gagged). At the end of the session give him feedback and be honest about how it went but remember to be respectful. He will find this useful and help him to better meet both your expectations. After each session make sure you send the Master a message of thanks for his time. Masters like this as it shows respect but also gives credit for all the preparation that goes into each session before the slave even shows up.