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I am a Master who is white, 58, fit and fabulous. I have a variety of slaves ranged from 19 to 50. I am strict but fair and do not discriminate against any particular race. Having said that my favorite flavour is black or asian. If there is any copy right material on this site let me know and it will be removed.

Saturday 14 January 2017

Household furniture part two. In my previous post I talked about using the slave as furniture. In this post I will talk a little bit about using household furniture as sex equipment. Many times I have heard both Masters and slaves talk about the expense of buying various pieces of sex equipment. I agree totally some of you purveyors of exotic equipment really need to point a gun at shoppers when they reach the counter because then the pretence would at least become reality. I do have some exotic equipment at home which for the most part I have made but really all you need is an average house and a bit of imagination and you will find yourself in a Pandora's box of sex. The average couch is just the right size to bend someone over to expose their butt for a good paddling. Spookily enough it is just the right height to also play sink the sausage. Same with a coffee table. It has four legs which are ideal to use as tie off points for each arm and leg and is the right height to play sink the sausage if you are into kneeling.
We have all heard stories of bored housewives sitting on a working washing machine for Beach Boy sex (Good Vibrations - LOL). A slave can also benefit from this if they are sitting on a butt plug as well as the washing machine. A table also has four legs and so a slave can be totally spread out so they can't move and high enough so they are not able to touch the ground and use it as a launch pad. There is also the good old kitchen chair. This can be used upright or in the case of the photo lying face down so that the whole back rest can be used to stretch out the slave. This gives you tie points for all arms and legs and puts the slave under physical stress as they have their knees bent back. Have the slave straddle the chair and it is just the right height for more sinking of sausages and paddling. Even just tying them to the chair as they sit provides numerous tie points which allows you to immobilise them, stretch their balls, tickle them, shave and paddle the front part of their bodies. The chair can be moved into the shower or bath so the slave can be immobilised while you use them as a urinal without fear of damage to the Persian rug.

Wednesday 11 January 2017

Furniture. To add an element of change into your slave training it is always good to invent something challenging and different to keep the training interesting. One of the things which I think is a bit quirky but never the less fun is to use the slave as common household furniture. The main reason why I use position three (mentioned in previous posts) is that it has the slave on his hands and knees which makes a perfect platform for a foot stool, or coffee table.
This can also be achieved by having the slave lie on their front or back but its obviously a lot lower. I quite often like to lie the slave down so I can use them as a bed or pillow. I recently interviewed a potential slave who I have given the name 'stupid' and number 12. We spent a pleasant three hours for our first session at a gay club which specialises in BDSM. Here during a break between tying him up and humiliating him I used him as a chair. I put him on his back with his legs bent over his head. I then sat down on the back of his thighs and used his legs from his knees to his feet as a back rest. This I found to be very comfortable for me but put slave 12 in a certain amount of physical stress. While having a nice sit I was able to play with his balls and cock which are two of my favourite things.
I have seen other slaves used as furniture with trays suspended from nipple clamps which I feel is a bit hard core for day to day use around the house. I have made a small string bag and suspended it from a slaves balls and then used the string bag to hold my drinks which I found a lot of fun. If you use this method then my advice is to drink slow or drink lots (LOL). I have also used a slaves flat head to hold drinks and it has the added advantage of forcing the slave to concentrate or he gets covered in drink and then gets punished for being careless. I have also used a naked slave as a plate and had them draped over the table covered in food which was eaten by some guests I had visiting. Make sure the slave is spotlessly clean and the food sticky and messy to get the best results.

Tuesday 3 January 2017

Training. When training slaves I normally expect slaves to only respond when asked. If I have a live in slave it is obviously different and there has to be quite a lot of too and fro conversation to keep the household functioning. When ever I get a response from a slave I normally expect them to agree with me and this is reflected in their answers generally. The question though is the answer what they really think or are they just giving me what I want to hear?
I have pondered this question quite a bit of late and it strikes me as almost impossible to determine one way or the other the amount of sincerity in a response from a slave. The point of training a slave is to mould the slave to conform with your requirements. To educate them on how you want things done, to allow them to anticipate your needs, so they can proactively try to please you without always being asked. Training is also to shape their thinking so that they willingly come to the conclusion that they are inferior and the only way of achieving personal worth is to please the Master. So is it important for a slave to really agree with the Master rather than just going along with his views? After much thinking I have reached the conclusion that it doesn't really matter. The Masters training is to point the way to the slave. If the slave recognises the correct way and responds and acts accordingly then I think the training is having the desired effect. I think if the slave doesn't totally commit to the Masters view then it is not totally ideal however as long as outwardly it appears so then I think the training is progressing. I have reached the conclusion that this is an intermediate phase of a slaves training and merely indicates the need for more training. I think it is positive and indicates the slaves desire to please you. I think if you can get to the final phase where the slave is totally dependent on your views, pleasure and feedback to achieve a sense of worth then you can consider the training over and move to a maintenance regime. This needs to be carefully handled as a maintenance regime could become very boring. In order to prevent this then the slaves maintenance regime needs to be constantly reviewed and constantly invigorated to keep it challenging. By this time the hard work has been done and the Master will have a very good idea of how his slave thinks and operates. One of the easiest ways of keeping the maintenance regime interesting might be to take a second slave and have the first slave assist in the training. Most slaves never quite get to this phase but it is certainly what all Masters should be aiming to develop in a slave.